Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

Did the STM strike affect your business this week?

Every week is different for me. Last week was crazy busy, this week has been slower. Hopefully this weekend will makeup for it, fingers crossed!

I think the F1 is way more likely to be affecting my business than the strike.. or maybe it's a mix of both.

 

[MCTJ]

Donc vous êtes MOINS occupées à cause de la F1? Câline, le Journal de Montréal disait le contraire

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Donc vous êtes MOINS occupées à cause de la F1? Câline, le Journal de Montréal disait le contraire

Les escortes indépendantes oui! C'est plus les agences, les bars de danseuses et les salons qui sont occupés

 

[Lunaseraphim]

For clients: what is the point of reaching out to a provider for a booking if you don't know your schedule yet?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

For clients: what is the point of reaching out to a provider for a booking if you don't know your schedule yet?

"I just wanted to know if you were available next week so I can plan to meet you once I know my schedule."

Ok, but I might not be available anymore the next time you reach out. Chances are I won't be. So, better contact us when you know you can plan!

 

[Merbcc12345]

I have had experiences where some SP’s orgasm while some don’t. I always wonder what is the typical SP’s outglook on faking. Also, assuming an orgasm is real, how does an SP handle later clients. I mean there must be a logical limit. If SP’s could orgasm with each client, I would assume by the end of the day, they would have less energy than a flea. Just asking.

 

[Michelle Gunn]

I have had experiences where some SP’s orgasm while some don’t. I always wonder what is the typical SP’s outglook on faking. Also, assuming an orgasm is real, how does an SP handle later clients. I mean there must be a logical limit. If SP’s could orgasm with each client, I would assume by the end of the day, they would have less energy than a flea. Just asking.

It goes without saying that we are all different, and as an indy it's pretty rare that I see more than one client in a day. It's also rare for me to not have at least one orgasm, usually I have quite a few, but I don't feel drained afterwards, just relaxed.

 

[LC18]

To check general availability and to see if the schedules can align. Sometimes I can adjust my own schedule based on the availability of the SP and dodge out of a lunch or dinner appointment especially when traveling.

Are you free today?

Yes

Ok not me I’ll message you when I am ready to book

 

[LC18]

I prefer that people contact me when they know for sure because everytime someone has asked me “what’s your next availability?” and I naively answered, they followed with a “it’s not working for me, can you do this time instead?”

Just start with your preferred time no?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

No, not like this.

What is your availability next Tuesday? Would you have time between 11:00 and 2PM or 6-9PM?

Yes

Great let me check my schedule and confirm the exact hours.

So much. This is irritating. It's funny how I'm rarely available when they reach out again.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

How long till they get back to you?

It's often multiple days later. It's never "I'll get back to you tonight with confirmed hours". That'd be OK.

 

[Julia Sky]

How long till they get back to you?

Often 3 and a half weeks later with something along the lines of "Sorry I didn't get back to you, I got busy at work and then went to Florida but I'm back now. Might be able to see you this weekend if you're free?"

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Often 3 and a half weeks later with something along the lines of "Sorry I didn't get back to you, I got busy at work and then went to Florida but I'm back now. Might be able to see you this weekend if you're free?"

This is so real hahaha

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Often 3 and a half weeks later with something along the lines of "Sorry I didn't get back to you, I got busy at work and then went to Florida but I'm back now. Might be able to see you this weekend if you're free?"

Exactly or they don't get back to me at all. If the person isn't asking when I'm available or giving me specific dates I'm assuming they're not serious now. I just don't understand what is the point of doing this.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Exactly or they don't get back to me at all. If the person isn't asking when I'm available or giving me specific dates I'm assuming they're not serious now. I just don't understand what is the point of doing this.

Indeed, I stop thinking about them and if they write to me again and I'm still available, good for them.

What I started doing a few years ago is offering to secure that window for them if they send me a deposit right away, that way they can take a few hours or days to confirm their plans. If they can't see me after all, I keep the deposit as it's possible I might have declined one or more invitations for the same window.

This offer was taken a few times, with some clients forfeiting their deposit as their plans changed. I don't mind since my time was compensated.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Indeed, I stop thinking about them and if they write to me again and I'm still available, good for them.

What I started doing a few years ago is offering to secure that window for them if they send me a deposit right away, that way they can take a few hours or days to confirm their plans. If they can't see me after all, I keep the deposit as it's possible I might have declined one or more invitations for the same window.

This offer was taken a few times, with some clients forfeiting their deposit as their plans changed. I don't mind since my time was compensated.

That makes sense but I get the impression they will refuse. This happens particularly with people who message me on this forum. So I set an automatic response to messages to avoid having my time wasted...

 

[Giselle Montreal]

That makes sense but I get the impression they will refuse.

It's just an supplemental offer, it's not an obligation to get a meeting. So I have nothing to lose to ask. If they refuse, they just have to hope I'm available when they get back to me again.

 

[LC18]

No, not like this.

What is your availability next Tuesday? Would you have time between 11:00 and 2PM or 6-9PM?

Yes

Great let me check my schedule and confirm the exact hours.

Go tell that to the men that text exactly like my exemple

 

[Lunaseraphim]

It's just an supplemental offer, it's not an obligation to get a meeting. So I have nothing to lose to ask. If they refuse, they just have to hope I'm available when they get back to me again.

Almost every time this happens these guys don't reach out again.

 

[LC18]

Quick but deep question:

If I were to message you to try to reconnect after our last date many months ago, what would be a good way to do so?