Ask us anything part 3

[Michelle Gunn]

As I suspected, the title of this thread is meaningless. It should be, “Ask us anything that we can respond to with an answer that makes us look good and helps our business.”

Nevertheless, my question was serious and the reluctance to answer it shows that many escorts fail to manage their finances wisely. It’s a stereotype about escorts, but it seems to have a lot of basis in fact.

I am sure there are also a lot of clients who fail to manage their finances wisely. But the intent of this thread is to ask questions of escorts, not clients.

The thread is not called "we will answer anything about anything"

If you've ever worked for yourself you would also know that it's much more difficult to calculate than taking 10% off your biweekly cheque.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

So... You want escorts to maintain an air of mystery but are also asking them why they wont divulge their finances or answer absolutely any question that gets asked here? Why are you here exactly?

I wouldn’t pay too much attention to anyone who, on a public forum, chooses to call himself captain *fill in *

 

[Giselle Montreal]

As I suspected, the title of this thread is meaningless. It should be, “Ask us anything that we can respond to with an answer that makes us look good and helps our business.”

You can ask all the questions you want, I am all for it. I choose to answer those that interest me, I never thought we were obligated to participate in this thread.

the reluctance to answer it shows that many escorts fail to manage their finances wisely. It’s a stereotype about escorts, but it seems to have a lot of basis in fact.

Indeed, I suck greatly. Financially wise too.

 

[DouMan]

Indeed, I suck greatly. Financially wise too.

Hilarious good reply

 

[CaptRenault]

The thread is not called "we will answer anything about anything"

If you've ever worked for yourself you would also know that it's much more difficult to calculate than taking 10% off your biweekly cheque.

OK, I get it. No more difficult math questions.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Hilarious good reply

Your appreciation makes me happy!

 

[MCTJ]

When the client says: "you should be paying me!" as a joke after he gave you oral and you had an orgasm, do you:

a) laugh
b) make an angry post on X
c) something else

 

[Fradi]

for me "YMMV" means "you are about to gamble your self-esteem,confidence,emotions,mental health and money. Think twice before sending that email"

Why book an SP if this is what you are expecting.
Why not look for a real girlfriend.
What did you think it was? of course it is a fantasy and a lot of acting, you honestly think a young woman is going to be head over heels in love with clients that are twice her age and many times out of shape also. The best you can hope for is that she thinks your kind and respectful and likes you enough to put an extra effort into her acting skills.
None of this will ever come close to being in love with a woman or her with you no matter how much $$$ is involved.
People need to face reality a bit lol.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I deleted my previous comment because it was partly sarcastic and I think the irony didn't come across cause I'm exhausted by these types of discussions about how expensive our rates are and how bad our service is and how transactional this "hobby" (it's not a hobby) is lol

 

[themonk83]

In meme form ;p

*Taps the sign*

I deleted my previous comment because it was partly sarcastic and I think the irony didn't come across cause I'm exhausted by these types of discussions about how expensive our rates are and how bad our service is and how transactional this "hobby" (it's not a hobby) is lol

 

[Fradi]

I deleted my previous comment because it was partly sarcastic and I think the irony didn't come across cause I'm exhausted by these types of discussions about how expensive our rates are and how bad our service is and how transactional this "hobby" (it's not a hobby) is lol

It is pretty simple really.
I am happy seeing and being with the ladies I see.
Are they acting, for sure and they deserve an Oscar.
You can either afford it or not.
Money is made to be spent to make you happy and to afford a better life for you and the ones you love.
Everyone needs to determine their own priorities and what it is they can and cannot afford and spend accordingly.

 

[CaptRenault]

If you could find the right guy ("sugar daddy"), would you give up escorting to become a "sugar baby" with just one client?

What monthly "allowance" (salary, income, pay) would you require to give up seeing multiple clients and have sex with only one client?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

It is pretty simple really.
I am happy seeing and being with the ladies I see.
Are they acting, for sure and they deserve an Oscar.
You can either afford it or not.
Money is made to be spent to make you happy and to afford a better life for you and the ones you love.
Everyone needs to determine their own priorities and what it is they can and cannot afford and spend accordingly.

it is really that simple. comments like "sps are so mean and refuse to do x or y with me" throw me off. i said i've never refused to do anything that wasn't in my ad, because the comment above really confused me lol. are u paying for gfe? is your hygiene ok? are you treating the sp right and not just sitting there expecting service to happen without doing anything? idk man. from my perspective each SP has their own personal boundaries that need to be respected and when i read stuff like this i know something doesn't sound right.

If you could find the right guy ("sugar daddy"), would you give up escorting to become a "sugar baby" with just one client?

What monthly "allowance" (salary, income, pay) would you require to give up seeing multiple clients and have sex with only one client?

i would be open to having a sugar daddy, but i wouldn't give up escorting. depending on one person for income sounds really scary to me, and feels like a loss of autonomy. obviously if i had a weekly or monthly allowance i would be seeing a lot less clients.

 

[ChloeCoeur]

If you could find the right guy ("sugar daddy"), would you give up escorting to become a "sugar baby" with just one client?

What monthly "allowance" (salary, income, pay) would you require to give up seeing multiple clients and have sex with only one client?

Hi, recent sugar baby to SP convert here!

For me, I switched it up because I crave the variety, and the very concrete valuation of time that this side of the industry provides. In my experience (4-5 years in the bowl) it's really hard to get folks on the sugaring end of things to understand or respect this. Very few "sugar daddy"s see the arrangement as a form of sw. It's murky. I also second what @Lunaseraphim said about depending on one person or relationship for income.

That said... having repeat clients that I build a friendship and trust with? Sounds lovely.

 

[Nachoy]

Hi, recent sugar baby to SP convert here!

For me, I switched it up because I crave the variety, and the very concrete valuation of time that this side of the industry provides. In my experience (4-5 years in the bowl) it's really hard to get folks on the sugaring end of things to understand or respect this. Very few "sugar daddy"s see the arrangement as a form of sw. It's murky. I also second what @Lunaseraphim said about depending on one person or relationship for income.

That said... having repeat clients that I build a friendship and trust with? Sounds lovely.

Do you still have previous SDs you seen when you were a SB in the bowl book you now as an escort?

 

[MCTJ]

Being a SP requires many skills. "Acting" is one of them. in my opinion a good SP is not the one who is genuinely " in love" with all of her clients -that's impossible- but is the one who can act -in a believable way- that she has certain level of interest in the meeting. I don't care if its all "staged" as long as it is performed well enough that can fool me, I am willing to believe it and that makes me feel good and that's all about it for mme.

Your point of view is interesting, because it constrats with what so many clients, myself included, hope, which is the opposite: that the escort is genuine, that she's not faking it, that she really enjoys being with us. Many escorts advertise that they offer a "genuine" connection. Maybe that's possible. What you're saying is basically: "I'm paying for it and I want to be entertained". That's valid–within the boundaries of consent, importantly–and a more realistic mindset that the client who's looking for a real connection and emotions with an escort (basically a girlfriend substitute).

 

[LC18]

I want a $ugar daddy but I wouldn’t want to rely on one man so instead I do this and have several mini $ugar daddies

 

[ChloeCoeur]

Do you still have previous SDs you seen when you were a SB in the bowl book you now as an escort?

I just moved from the states so I'm actually not sure what will happen with those relationships. That said I really have one main SD I'm in touch with and when I see him it's been at the same arrangement we had before and I think it would be difficult to transition to an escort pay model.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

That's the thing. In my ideal world, I'd have a few regulars I see every week, for more than 1 hours. I do like meeting new gentlemen but I also enjoy building friendships with the men I see.

This doesn't necessarily translate to reality. Regulars and repeat clients come and go, sadly. I don't take it personally when a regular stops coming to see me, I don't think it reflects on my service or who I am as a person. Life happens, and things have been pretty chaotic for most..

 

[Wearethenight]

Approximately what percent of your income do you save and/or invest for long term future needs (such as buying a home, retirement, or future living expenses when you stop escorting)?

When this was my only exclusive job, I invested 40% of my income largely on school because as a former international student I paid much more than locals. The rest I spent on energy stocks, that paid of well, lost a large chunk on Bitcoin investments sadly. The other investments I have are slowly growing ( energy)

I am now shopping around for the best mortgage rate with several banks as I can put a substantial down payment down now for a condo. I am using my civilian job as a point but will use most of my savings as a SW for the down payment, just gotta find the best rate. In Jewish culture we put a high emphasis on saving and I mean high, I'm too paranoid to be without money.