Ask us anything part 3

[Julia Sky]

Haha to me it's the opposite, being in shape is more about physical appearance to me whereas being fit is more about healthy life habits and the body's abilities! Interesting.

I agree, I don't think I could sing and move on stage multiple times per month. My asthma and legs would give up on me lol. It has to be one or the other, can't do both at the same time haha

 

[LC18]

I checked on Reddit and most people seemed to agree with you Julia but they still wouldn’t apply those to someone who is fat which doesn’t make sense to me.

If you can keep an active lifestyle, do moderate activities and eat healthily, body corpulence shouldn’t matter.

Anyways the answers I’ve gotten helped me understand the general idea better. Thank you!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I think a lot of people would describe me as fit but I could never do what Lizzo does on stage. I don't think being fit has anything to do with how fat someone is, I think it has to do with how strong, flexible and physically capable they are and having a good muscle mass.

 

[LC18]

[Clients]

When requesting an outcall, what amount would you be comfortable paying for transportation?*

I am considering removing my fee for outcalls that are in the downtown/old Montreal area as they are the most popular places.

*whether it’s before the date or at the sp’s arrival

 

[DouMan]

Regarding uber/transportation fees ... I haven't been to Montreal in many years so was wondering if Agencies now charge transportation fees for Outcalls for the downtown/tourist district?

 

[CuriousGent]

[Clients]

When requesting an outcall, what amount would you be comfortable paying for transportation?*

I am considering removing my fee for outcalls that are in the downtown/old Montreal area as they are the most popular places.

*whether it’s before the date or at the sp’s arrival

Quote the approximate trip on Uber or Lyft and add 15$

 

[LC18]

$3,50

The metro is $3,75 now no?

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

The metro is $3,75 now no?

I think it’s free if you’re 65 and over!

 

[Flyingby]

Have you ever refrainded from seeing a MERB member solely based on their comments on merb?
Vice versa. Have you reached out to a member to offer your services based on you liking their writing style?

 

[Julia Sky]

Have you ever refrainded from seeing a MERB member solely based on their comments on merb?
Vice versa. Have you reached out to a member to offer your services based on you liking their writing style?

Yes and it was the same guy in both cases.

I didn't want to see him because his posts made me think I'm not really his type, but I also really want to meet him because his personality is attractive. Lol it's a weird dilemma

 

[talkinghead]

Vice versa. Have you reached out to a member to offer your services based on you liking their writing style?

This is kind of off-topic and maybe a question for a mod but I've wondered about whether SPs can reach out to members, hoping for a date. (It happened to me a few times years ago but not recently.) Also, is it within MERB's policies for a member to post an ISO and encourage SPs to respond with PMs? Could I post: "ISO an SP who loves Frida Kahlo and MF Doom; if that's you, message me"??

 

[Workingman]

Yes and it was the same guy in both cases.

I didn't want to see him because his posts made me think I'm not really his type, but I also really want to meet him because his personality is attractive. Lol it's a weird dilemma

Personality trumps types imo. I used to think I had a type, but so many ppl have shattered that with thier personality and charm as an individual.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Have you ever refrainded from seeing a MERB member solely based on their comments on merb?
Vice versa. Have you reached out to a member to offer your services based on you liking their writing style?

I'll be frank. I used to be very wary of interacting with merb users because of bad experiences I've has in the beginning of my career as SP.

That being said, I have developed a lot of empathy and respect for some of the members here and I feel safe seeing some of my colleagues I appreciate as well a lot of gentlemen have been super nice and welcoming

However.. I will not dodge the question: if a merb user gives me his handle and I see that he posted a lot of negative reviews and disrespectful comments, I'm not likely to accept seeing him. This may not seem fair, but it's for my own safety and mental health

 

[Lunaseraphim]

This is kind of off-topic and maybe a question for a mod but I've wondered about whether SPs can reach out to members, hoping for a date. (It happened to me a few times years ago but not recently.) Also, is it within MERB's policies for a member to post an ISO and encourage SPs to respond with PMs? Could I post: "ISO an SP who loves Frida Kahlo and MF Doom; if that's you, message me"??

If you're seriously asking that question I love Frida khalo and mf doom lol.

 

[talkinghead]

If you're seriously asking that question I love Frida khalo and mf doom lol.

I was being serious, and I love them, too!--though I meant it more as a general policy question. A lot of men seek acronyms and innuendo (CIM, MSOG, greek), and I've been there, but these days I often seek nonsexual experiences (in addition to playtime) that might not show up on an SP's website or be known to clients. I enjoy having a nice bottle of wine (and/or 420, nothing harder or illegal) to end the day, putting on some tunes and an easy buzz, and having a fun, lively conversation: music, the arts, this hobby, goofy stories, etc. On the one hand, this isn't especially hard to find and there are lots of ladies who (seem to) enjoy hanging out like this; on the other hand, it's most definitely *not* something that all SPs can or want to do--and I don't think it's fair of me to expect it or even ask for it. For some SPs, talking is harder work than f%^ing. Luna, I can tell from your posts out here that you're the real deal, but I can say from experience that many SPs who advertise that they love "books, fine wine, museums, organic food, and yoga" ... are indulging in creative marketing. Shocking, I know!

 

[LC18]

Have you reached out to a member to offer your services based on you liking their writing style?

That’s solicitation so, no. I’m always excited when people mention they’ve read my posts on merb during the booking process.

Like what have you read?

 

[CLOUD 500]

[Anyone]

What is your definition of a fit body? When you see that on an ad or when a client gives you that description of themselves. What do you expect?

To me it means she has a tiny flat stomach and is somewhat toned.

 

[DouMan]

I was being serious, and I love them, too!--though I meant it more as a general policy question. A lot of men seek acronyms and innuendo (CIM, MSOG, greek), and I've been there, but these days I often seek nonsexual experiences (in addition to playtime) that might not show up on an SP's website or be known to clients. I enjoy having a nice bottle of wine (and/or 420, nothing harder or illegal) to end the day, putting on some tunes and an easy buzz, and having a fun, lively conversation: music, the arts, this hobby, goofy stories, etc. On the one hand, this isn't especially hard to find and there are lots of ladies who (seem to) enjoy hanging out like this; on the other hand, it's most definitely *not* something that all SPs can or want to do--and I don't think it's fair of me to expect it or even ask for it. For some SPs, talking is harder work than f%^ing. Luna, I can tell from your posts out here that you're the real deal, but I can say from experience that many SPs who advertise that they love "books, fine wine, museums, organic food, and yoga" ... are indulging in creative marketing. Shocking, I know!

Don't want to intrude and I really get your point @talkinghead but this must be tread lightly.

This approach may be more suited after multiple dates for certain providers and even then, there may be reason for caution in some cases. Often it may raise, if not a red flag, at least an orange one.

This approach will spook many since it very much resembles a regular dating site. Friendly interaction, suggesting social dates without paying and leading to "hey we're good friends we could have a free one right?".

Not for everyone and for those who may accept boundries must be clearly set right at the beginning and respected. This can easily and rapidly go in a very bad direction if not.

 

[LC18]

I can say from experience that many SPs who advertise that they love "books, fine wine, museums, organic food, and yoga" ... are indulging in creative marketing.

You brought a book to someone and they didn’t know how to read?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I was being serious, and I love them, too!--though I meant it more as a general policy question. A lot of men seek acronyms and innuendo (CIM, MSOG, greek), and I've been there, but these days I often seek nonsexual experiences (in addition to playtime) that might not show up on an SP's website or be known to clients. I enjoy having a nice bottle of wine (and/or 420, nothing harder or illegal) to end the day, putting on some tunes and an easy buzz, and having a fun, lively conversation: music, the arts, this hobby, goofy stories, etc. On the one hand, this isn't especially hard to find and there are lots of ladies who (seem to) enjoy hanging out like this; on the other hand, it's most definitely *not* something that all SPs can or want to do--and I don't think it's fair of me to expect it or even ask for it. For some SPs, talking is harder work than f%^ing. Luna, I can tell from your posts out here that you're the real deal, but I can say from experience that many SPs who advertise that they love "books, fine wine, museums, organic food, and yoga" ... are indulging in creative marketing. Shocking, I know!

A lot of what you describe fits very well with the type of experience I can provide I love talking. As long as I'm getting compensated for social time, it's all good with me