Any escort working with a limited pool of regulars does not differ from the seeking arrangement girls. But this kind of status is difficult to achieve and maintain without a well-paid day job.
Communicate with women on Seeking without paying the outrageous sub fee
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I think seeking arr. isn’t worth it anymore both for men and women.
It might be time to just go back to meeting people in person or through escorting.
It might be time to just go back to meeting people in person or through escorting.
My tips:
- Use this link to save 33%: https://members.seeking.com/billing/memberships?promo=VWO33PB (repeat every months)
- Make a good verified profile
- Don't ask for sex on the first date, but a date at your place... that way you know she is willing
- Don't offer crazy amounts, personally my offer is 300 or less if the girl is less interesting
Example:
If she refuses completely... move on.
- Use this link to save 33%: https://members.seeking.com/billing/memberships?promo=VWO33PB (repeat every months)
- Make a good verified profile
- Don't ask for sex on the first date, but a date at your place... that way you know she is willing
- Don't offer crazy amounts, personally my offer is 300 or less if the girl is less interesting
Example:
If she refuses completely... move on.
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Is that Helene Boudreau? What is she doing on there? I thought her onlyfans business was doing well
Like anything else, with Seeking there is a variety of people with different motivations being on SA. What originally attracted me to it was everyone knows an arrangement leads to sex. The messaging before meeting allowed me to get an idea of their personality and see more photos. With escorts, it's basically you decide off of a static website, or observing a twitter exchange, or from a board like MERB. It is not direct. After awhile patterns on seeking emerge to see fake profiles (e.g. mostly Asian) or women who are likely LL, or just DTF, which is ok, but is not what I am usually looking for. I have not seen any regular escorts in Montreal SA, but have seen Toronto escorts on seeking. BTW, they charge the same rate, just more flexible on the timing and you get to see their pics and a better exchange of messages, albeit, they still get right to the point LOL
The reason im probably seeking so much is that the regular I used to see and send money too (kinda the type of arrangement im looking for) retired and cut all communication out of nowhere. Like, she didnt delete me on IG and shit and she did told me multiple times that she wouldn't be an SP for longue but the fact that she stoped talking to me and like this had mid kinda sad. Im happy she's doing what she loves now but I kinda miss what we had you know. Wasnt able to meet an other SP who gave me the same feeling
I did get in touch with three different women I saw on seeking, without having to pay. Because they were also registered elsewhere. Other dating site.... and Merb.
To answer the initial question, the only way I can think of is that you ask a friend who has already paid.. to send a message to that woman on your behalf. I wouldn't mind doing it, but I'm 99.99% sure that this woman will be quite offended that you refuse to pay that 100$ subscription to talk to her
Maybe she did intend to keep communicating after she retired, but realized there was no point bec she wanted no more arrangement. Take some time and keep looking. You’ll fall into another arrangement eventually. And if you wanted more beyond the arrangement you have your answer as well.
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I done a month of seeking and I find it’s real messages. I chat with other fellows who do SBs and they feel Secret Benefits is more of a scam like you mention
I totally understand the argument that the women on seeking are trying to differentiate themselves from escorts while providing the same service. But many also consider the consequences/stigma they would suffer from, if they get discovered as escorts. At least on seeking they can keep a semblance of reputation protection compared to being a full on prostitute.
Assuming the title and role can be heavy.
I am wondering if you think that an escort can transition to SB lifestyle or do both? In my mind the kind of service I offer as an escort is different than a SB.
For me a man hires an escort to help fulfil a need and as soon as he is out the door, he does not want to hear from me.
Similarly when a man has an arrangement with a SB, there is an on going relationship in between the dates, a true friendship on top of the sexy time.
If I am honest the SB lifestyle seems very interesting, but I also think men would refuse if they knew I was also an escort. Even thought it is a completely different kind of relationship
Assuming the title and role can be heavy.
I am wondering if you think that an escort can transition to SB lifestyle or do both? In my mind the kind of service I offer as an escort is different than a SB.
For me a man hires an escort to help fulfil a need and as soon as he is out the door, he does not want to hear from me.
Similarly when a man has an arrangement with a SB, there is an on going relationship in between the dates, a true friendship on top of the sexy time.
If I am honest the SB lifestyle seems very interesting, but I also think men would refuse if they knew I was also an escort. Even thought it is a completely different kind of relationship
Titles, assumptions, categories, stereotypes should be eliminated. Sex work is sex work. A patron of a sex worker is still a "John". It should not matter if the person markets herself sometimes with an escort business model, or a sugar baby business model. Both work for me. I still prefer the SB model because I don't like the "honey do you want to extend" phrase. I want an AYCE or "all inclusive" plan LOL!
if subscription fee is an issue, best advice is to stay away or buy at deep discount during sale weeks
I haven't been in SA in a long time, like 4 years at least, but something I can say from my experience: it is an open market for all kind of ideas and interests; from "I am an arm candy model, I want thousands of dollars for a platonic relation" to survival sex, girls next door paying rent, housewives looking for adventure, university students financing tuition, well known escorts, dominatrices, duo couples, scam artists, etc
even if the OP is loaded with money, it is a good idea to take things slowly
I haven't been in SA in a long time, like 4 years at least, but something I can say from my experience: it is an open market for all kind of ideas and interests; from "I am an arm candy model, I want thousands of dollars for a platonic relation" to survival sex, girls next door paying rent, housewives looking for adventure, university students financing tuition, well known escorts, dominatrices, duo couples, scam artists, etc
even if the OP is loaded with money, it is a good idea to take things slowly
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