Kissing is a must to me. I will refuse visits who request no kissing, as it is a way i get to feel out and connect with the people i see, and makes it more fun for me. (I don't do cim. And bjs are often cbj's, against popular oppinion here.)
Actually my turn off is when a person tries to be dominant. Domination counts as an extra, in part because i don't feel comfortable offering it freely. My submissive side comes out for my master, who I love, and I trust. But when it comes to others I tend to be more wild cat, than tame kitten. Unwilling to be led or guided. I am more likely to bite, snap, and overpower someone trying to push to be controling, especially if it wasn't previously discussed, and they are just assuming they can. Just because i wear a collar, i should just fall in line... lol... i don't.
Actually my turn off is when a person tries to be dominant. Domination counts as an extra, in part because i don't feel comfortable offering it freely. My submissive side comes out for my master, who I love, and I trust. But when it comes to others I tend to be more wild cat, than tame kitten. Unwilling to be led or guided. I am more likely to bite, snap, and overpower someone trying to push to be controling, especially if it wasn't previously discussed, and they are just assuming they can. Just because i wear a collar, i should just fall in line... lol... i don't.




