So I agree with most of what is stated here..
Except... I don't like the part about the don't start off the conversation with "Hi. How are you?"
honestly when anyone contacts me and gets straight to business I find it offensive, and will force the conversation to slow down and it's actually one of my red flags if they don't take a moment to talk and understand I am a real human being, and not just an object for them to play with and discard... If he doesn't acknowledge and respond to have a real conversation while inviting me to see him, then I have no interest in seeing him.. To me that is likely going to be a bad experience and I wont have any of it...
Yes this is a job, but it doesn't have to be one I hate and fear who I will meet.. I very much treat it like a dating site conversation.. I need to be made comfortable with the person before I am willing to see them.. I have had bad experiences as well, but a lot fewer once I insisted on making the person I am going to see, see me as a person and not someone who does what I do because I have to, I don't. But make me want to see you....
As for the MENU discussion... I have seen some providers list their services as a menu, with a price listed next to each activity, and time allocations for each. It really did look like a menu... but do understand that legally a menu is something that can wind a girl up in a lot of trouble. selling sex itself is illegal and could get a girl in trouble. If she is wise, and to protect herself, she MUST claim it is time paid for not the acts within that time being paid for. And with that, I don't want to pull out every trick and tip every visit. It would make the visits mundane and boring to me. Each visit is it's own visit, and every time is different. My response to a menu is often just... "I don't give ideas of what you can do to me... tell me what your looking for and I will let you know if it falls under my GFE, or counts as extra, or if it is unavailable as an option." Be honest and don't be shy asking... We likely wont know you till we get to your door anyways. There's nothing to be shy about. We also do this enough to likely know what you like, once we actually start playing together. Our instincts can likely surprise you.
Just remember when you are going with an Indy girl, you are more likely to be missing out on the experience if you only have the 1 goal of your completion. Treat her well, and you will likely get back more than you initially were contacting her for. Sure there are good and bad apples in every bunch, don't treat her like an object, and she likely wont treat you like a transaction either... Besides survival in this line of work isn't in the 1 time visits, but the callbacks, and if I (she) didn't enjoy time with you, I'm (she's) not coming back, and if you didn't enjoy time with me (her) your not calling her back either.
A very big point missed too when dealing with indy girls... She is doing it on her own.. If she is with someone she can't respond to you right away, often you have to wait for her to have the time to get to your messages.. She likely wont accept calls, because she has her own life to attend to and might be on a visit and unavailable to answer the phone... Read her profile.. she might have set hours... We need to sleep too sometimes, and it is likely your pissing her off when you disturb her sleep, which wont result in her being her best when you then try to book her. She is a woman.... meaning likely those moody traits a partner in a relationship might have.. is intensified because your not even her lover, or even likely someone she has met yet, your trying to be. Basically your dealing with a woman and you want her to be inclined to see you... That understanding needs to be realized.