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Red Paul

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Personally I've been lucky. I've had only one case of bait & switch, and on that occasion I said no to the girl and had her agency come get her. Otherwise I don't like to turn a girl down and I never have, even in cases where her pictures turned out to be from her younger and less heavy days. Others can do as they like, of course. In fact it's always been my impression that refusing a girl is the customer's right. He just has to do it at the start of the session and hand over $20 or so ("for the driver").

Which brings me to my question. Is my belief correct or have things changed? I recently saw a very pretty and very nice young woman who insisted that there's no such right. She said that if the customer doesn't want the girl he still has to pay full price because "he booked the time."

This discussion was academic because I liked the girl. But what's the prevailing view these days? I'm a bit out of touch.
 

Like_It_Hot

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If the girl showing is not the one described or if the picture is not her or misrepresenting her. You should not feel obliged to compensate in any way, unless you are ok with the surprise... It is you being screwed, you are the victim. Before booking a girl you don't know, always ask if the picture is acurate or if it is a look alike. If you are then satisfied with the answer, still advise you won't pay anything if you get fooled by false statement. Simple as this. No way one should pay anything for BS.
 

Sol Tee Nutz

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Look behind you.
If you order a steak and a cheeseburger is delivered would you pay for it? In a good restaurant you may get a free drink for the error, perhaps ask for a HJ before she leaves.
 

hungry101

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In the US there was a time when I was seeing a few BP girls. I quit this. I used to have 20$ ready for incall and 40$ for outcall. I would drop it as a diversion.

I have never turned a Montreal escort away. I don't plan on it but I would like to here from some of the girls and maybe agency owners about decorum and protocol.
 

Halloween Mike

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Bait and Switch Incall : Turn around and walk away, simple as that

Bait and Switch Outcall : Tell her she is not the girl in the pictures and its clearly a case of bait and switch. Use the correct thecnical terms to show your a familiar in the hobby and not a beginner. Nothing should be given as you are the "victim" there. As bad as comparing human being to food can be, Sol is right in a way... If you want a better comparision, if i call for a photograph for a wedding and the person sent is actually a singer, obviously its not what i expected, so im in my right to turn down the services from the person

Legit Girl Incall : This is debatable. Some peoples say they would give money for compensation, others would not. Me? I would probably turn down a girl on attitude before look actually so in that case if im really feeling it won't be good, that im not gonna have a good time, and she herself seem like she would rather be elsewhere than with me, best would be to cancel the meeting right? In that case i don't think im entitled to give anything as it would be rewarding bad services... The only case where i would turn down a girl on look is if the pictures are VERY misleading despite being her, like 5 years old and 25 pounds less... something like that. In that case despite being her, i still feel its bait and switch so those rules apply. Otherwise... i think a session can be salvaged. Even if facially she is not as pretty as expected or what i had in mind, if she is very cool and the body is great, im gonna have a lot of fun anyway. Face is what is hidden most of the time, so its a risk we have to take, but at the same time agency usually have "standards" so its not like you gotta get send a very ugly girls. lol. We all have our "standards" and beauty is in the eye of a beholder as they say, but its pretty rare an "8" is a "3" for somebody else... and vice versa. Im usually not fond of numbers but this is to illustrate my analogy.

In the end if you turn down the girl, if your a good client of the agency and you really don't do it "often" or almost never, but it happen one time, they won't care im sure. If your a new client they may not priotize you for next time but i doubt they will ban you for a first time. Its just something to do "sparringly". Don't book escorts waiting to see the perfect "10" beauty in your eyes, cause it could take a while... Even girls with face pics, they may show with different make up or close to none as glamour pics ain't the same as "regular life look" and look very different than what you expected. You can't base your bookings on this.

Legit Girl Outcall : Pretty much take everything i said for incall, but there i would give at least a 20 for the driver. Some would call me cheap and say they would give 50 but look, im not in Laval or such, im downtown... 20$ of gaz is more than enough. Its what a driver get for a downtown booking anyway.

In the end remember the most important rule of all : An escort can always refuse a client, but a client can always refuse an escort as well. It goes both way.
 

cloudsurf

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If you order a steak and a cheeseburger is delivered would you pay for it? In a good restaurant you may get a free drink for the error, perhaps ask for a HJ before she leaves.

Reminds me of the time a friend and I went to a small roadside restaurant near Trois Riviers. My friend ordered a steak..... found it too rare and sent it back. Ten minutes later when the steak is back he cuts into it and tells the waitress that its too well done and he wants a new steak. Next thing that happens is that the 300 lb cook comes out holding a huge butcher knife and wanting to know what`s wrong with his cooking. My friend said nothing at all I love how you made my steak.

I`ve turned quite a few agency girls away and luckily not a single driver came after me with a knife....lol

Just recently I tried to turn myself away from an in-call because I didn`t feel the chemistry. Most girls would have said OK go fuck-off and slammed the door. Not this woman....she begged me to not leave to just stay and talk....have a drink whatever. I felt bad and stayed in the doorway talking but still trying to get away. I noticed that she had nice plump lips so I asked if I could see how she kisses. Fantastic passionate erotic kissing made me feel like the mate of a black widow spider ....knowing that I was trapped with no escape. That was it.....I stepped into the bear trap. She pulled me into her bedroom and faster than superman can change costumes we were naked and attacking each others bodies . Everything was a haze. Face fucking, scratching, biting, slapping.....then in minutes her orgasms started. Louder screams than anything I`ve heard before in my life. I was afraid her screams would start peeling the paint off the walls. She said that she had never had such an intense series of orgasms.
I will stop writing any more details, because I don`t want to make it sound like one of those rosbos type self absorbed and narsissistic reviews.
 

Sol Tee Nutz

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Look behind you.
I will stop writing any more details, because I don`t want to make it sound like one of those rosbos type self absorbed and narsissistic reviews.

This is a good sense of humor.
 

rollingstone

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I break it up into three categories: Bait and Switch, She has some issue, I have some issue.

For B&S - where I believe she is not the person in the pictures, I send her away right away. I only ever did this once in Spain. I asked her to leave and said she was not the person the agency promised me. There was a language barrier and with some help from Google Translate she began to understand. I tried calling the agency but no one picked up. She felt she was entitled to 1 hour but in the end I gave her 20 euros for a cab and left it at that.

Now I have experienced situations where the pics were not an accurate representation (she had her make up done well + photoshop) but I could tell she was the person in the photo. The incident I am talking about was different - she was someone completely different.

She has issues: Usually if I discover she is not well groomed or has a hygiene issue, I will send her home with a prorated value of time spent. Unfortunately issues like this are not apparent in the first 5 minutes in the meeting so I do feel obligated to at least offer her something for the time spent. This has happened to me twice. In one instance the 'smell' did not become apparent until FS.

I have issues: Sometimes I get someone who I booked based on reviews, but when she arrives she is not my type. I convince myself to give her a chance to see what all the talk was about, but after the action starts I realize its just not working for me. I'll ask her to leave and book someone else. In this case I pay her the full amount for the time booked. I'll usually make up an excuse like "I have a headache". I've done this 4 times that I can recall.
 

Thor Jr

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I will stop writing any more details, because I don`t want to make it sound like one of those rosbos type self absorbed and narsissistic reviews.

Ok, and i thought it was just me....:peep:

I have ended meetings earlier because i wasnt feeling an attraction, but i never sent the lady home at the door, although a few times i should of.

There was one time when one lady was a little bigger :fear:then her pictures but was very pretty and a nice smile and i later found out a great personality, after an hour goes by she made a reference to her ass being a little big but its an asset and i made a remark about how i always thought that the camera added 10 pounds not take it off...I received a little slap and we laughed, next thing i know her ass is in my face and we enjoyed a 69 for a bit.
 

Flyingby

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I will stop writing any more details, because I don`t want to make it sound like one of those rosbos type self absorbed and narsissistic reviews.
You mean they don’t all have multi mind boggling orgasms that they’ve never experienced before At every session? ;)
 

jalimon

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You mean they don’t all have multi mind boggling orgasms that they’ve never experienced before At every session? ;)

Haha Fly, Cloud, give the young dude a chance. He's at a age where you still think girl prefer young guys. Also he is writing reviews. Something so few are doing here. A bit too long ok but still he's reviewing. As for orgasm maybe he is that good. It's possible. Some girls told me some guys just know how! Me? Me sex is like golf where despite years and years of practice, I still suck at it haha Do I care? No I have so much fun :)

Cheers,
 

Halloween Mike

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You mean they don’t all have multi mind boggling orgasms that they’ve never experienced before At every session? ;)

Lol always make me laugh when i read this in reviews. I think for my next review im gonna write the following...

As i was shaking up my big belly, while looking at her eyes, she was fingering herself in lust. The more i shook it, the more intense it become for her, and she had a huge orgasm. I know my big beer belly was too much for her to handle for that long, it made her cum so hard.

:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::whoo:

Its like guys never heard of women faking an orgasm before.
 

jalimon

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Halloween Mike

Men you make me laugh HM :) One day we will do something together and you know what, the girls wont have any orgasm at all, but surely will have a lot of laughs hehe

Cheers,
 

Stroker7

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I never have in all my years of hobbying. Thank heaven for technology though. Agencies as of recently have done a better job of showcasing the ladies on their rosters through their individual websites and advertisements here on merb. If I could go back in time I certainly would have sent a few away due to various reasons most frequently apparent drug use.
 

chowzilla

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I think the age of B&S with agencies is over, however you can still come across those on BP though.
if its a question of hygiene, by all means, send her away
if she is just not your type, then a lil compensation, or toft

I heard a story of a client who refused a girl because she had fake eye-lashes... now I don't agree with that... I know its a question of taste but still..
 

Hydargoos

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Je ne l'ai jamais fait mais quelques fois j'aurais dû. D'habitude, je le sais assez rapidement si la rencontre sera bonne ou non suite au contact initial. Et même quand je sentais que ce serait une hr longue, je n'avais pas le coeur à l'envoyer. C'est arrivé aussi qu'elle ne m'attirait tout simplement pas
 

RobertNYC

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I shut down a session only once when a girl refused DATY and sent her on her way. It was early enough into session that I ended it and paid her for 30 minutes. The agency was the old Montreal Angels. Prior to session the phone guy, Tony I believe, told me she was “fantastic”. But how GFE could a girl be if she doesn’t DATY with anyone? I checked the site a week later and she was gone.
 

luvdozer

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The only time this came close to happening for me in montreal was about a year ago. I booked a girl through a major agency who I had booked with many times in the past. The girl who showed up was the girl pictured on the agency website but her face was really not attractive at all.

In my head, I knew I had a decision to make in the first 5 minutes. Option 1 would be to say I don't think this is a great match and send her away with half the fee. Option 2 would be try and make the best of it. I went with option 2. She was incredibly nice and very friendly and did her best to provide service, but it just wasn't working because I wasn't attracted. I never let on that I wasnt attracted and I paid her the full fee.

Afterwards I messaged the booker and explained the issue. I made it clear that she did nothing wrong, I just wasn't attracted. I also told him I wouldn't be posting a review because it wouldn't have been a fair one.

Sometimes it just happens.
 
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