Why is "Take out" more expensive?

[here4agoodtime]

I always used to do "take out" from SCs and thought that $300 and up was the normal price for 1hr. I never really looked into escorts but when I found that the average price is about $180, I wondered why do dancers charge more? I would like to hear from both Guys and Girls, dancers and escorts on here to see both sides. I'm not saying that some dancers aren't worth it but, a lot of escorts are just as hot.

 

[Tracy]

I always took into account that seeing a client after hours from a club can get me fired... so, I wanted to make more money for the higher risk.

 

[Techman]

First thing to realize is that not all dancers will offer or accept an offer for takeout.

Now that being said, a dancer has the advantage as you have already, in most cases, spent money on her for dances. So she knows she has already got you on a hook and you will probably accept to pay a ridiculous price for her company if you are interested. For her it's just extra money. If she is a popular dancer at a decent club, she will probably make a good amount just by dancing. If you don't accept the offer she can walk away with no real loss.

 

[maximus]

I think that there is also a fantasy part to this having sex with a stripper and there is a sucker born every minute.

 

[MG_mtl]

I've had take out from quite a few strippers from contact and non contact clubs and although I almost always paid more then 180$ an hour (current average rate for an agency girl), I have been happy with most of my choices. That being said, I am a long time client for most of these ladies and they don't charge me the "tourist trap rates" of 500-1000$ a visit. I won't disclose how much I've paid as each girl has asked me for a different amount.


What I like about take out is I know the girl. So I know what to expect. I have seen her strip for me many times, so I know her body and am pleased with it and attracted to it. Same can be said for another important aspect of a great meeting, her personality! I know it and am attracted to it as well. Finally I can tell from the dances a lady gives me if she will be hot it bed or not! It sounds crazy, but I have never been wrong! Plus take out's are never clock watchers. If they are with you it means they also picked you! So I've had girls stay 2-3 hours with me for a meeting that was suppose to last an hour (now divide the rate they are charging me by the time they spend with me and you are well below the 180$ an hour!). And finally, I like feeling special . I know girls who see clients on the side don't just do it with me (I'm not that naive), but I also know I will be the only one she sees on that particular night, maybe week (in some cases, month).

The same can't be said about escorts. Apart from a few (photoshoped) pics, it's hard to tell what a girl looks like. You can't see her face in the pics in most cases. You have no clue about her personality other then from a few (if any) reviews here on Merb. And you might be guy #4 out of 5 she will see that night. And since you are #4/5 of the night she needs to be out of there in a rush.

So for all these reasons, take out has been what the hobby has been all about for me in the past months if not more. Which explains the lack of reviews from my part...

My 2 cents.

 

[here4agoodtime]

Thanks for the input! For me I see it two ways. With an escort you get a good price and usually a ``GFE`` experience. (, DFK,DATY). Downside, unless it`s a repeat you don`t know what the atitude or chemistry will be like.
With a stripper you can see her ``in action`` and get a feel of her atitude and if there`s chemistry over time for the price of a few dances. Downside, in my experience, it`s just business no GFE, so I figured no GFE should be cheaper.
I just wanted some other views on it so thanks again.

 

[here4agoodtime]

Plus take out's are never clock watchers. If they are with you it means they also picked you! So I've had girls stay 2-3 hours with me for a meeting that was suppose to last an hour (now divide the rate they are charging me by the time they spend with me and you are well below the 180$ an hour!). And finally, I like feeling special . I know girls who see clients on the side don't just do it with me (I'm not that naive), but I also know I will be the only one she sees on that particular night, maybe week (in some cases, month).

I agree with you MG_mtl. I guess I should count my blessings because I've had some great encounters with take out. Some have even been free, they either liked my atitude or were really horney that night. One had even just had a fight with her boyfriend and needed a place to stay for the night. And yes I had some stay all night for the oringinal price.(Good for the all night part, but not so good when it turns into all morning and most of the afternoon when you have stuff to do and all she wants to do is sleep.) So great input and I guess I could have bigger problems. Thanks for your time.

 

[waingro]

Recently got takeout from a stripper in a non-FS club. It was $200. I've been going to SCs for over five years, and this is the first time I've been successful (although I admit don't try to make it happen). Don't think I would do it again, as it was more of a novelty thing for me.

Tip for those who like this sort of thing: 1) make sure your hotel/motel is walking distance from the club; and 2) arrive near the end of her shift

 

[master_bates]

Recently got takeout from a stripper in a non-FS club. It was $200.

You got an sp rate, must have been a slow night

 

[Regular Guy]

Attitude!

and its like to pay an sp for extra....you are asking a stripper to do an extra when you want to take her out (and to "work" harder than she has to)

Exactly:

I think it all depends on the stripper's attitude. Some of them have told me that they think SP's are crazy to do what they do as they do just as well or better stripping. (Personally I don't think that argument bears close scrutiny) But the point here is that some feel that if someone is asking for FS they must be willing to pay more than the girl gets stripping and that she is worth more. I once had one delusional one quote me $500.

Some feel that if you are asking, you must want them badly. Demand often will dictate price.

A lot of them simply wont entertain the idea at any price.

But they don't all think that way. I once got a decent one FS GFE for $80 and a ride home. She had started her thirties and got this idea into her head that she was approaching the end to her time as being desirable. It's all in their particular mindset at that moment.

 

[sweetolivia]

If we miss a night of work for 180$ it's not worth it !!! On top of it all like Tracy said we can lose our job !!! So it's not worth it...

 

[metoo4]

If the girl go bragging about doing customers on the side, some clubs might fire her. It will probably depends on who the girl is and how she operate the pick-ups.

If she leave the club with customers, some clubs will fire her. Strip clubs do not want to be seen by LE as pick-up prostitution joints.

If she negociate "outside" prices overtly in the club, most clubs will fire her. This situation put the club in direct exposure with morality issues LE might want to explore, specially if the girl come back and leave with customers after customers.

If the girl give her phone number to a specific few gents (not to everybody and their buddies) and then they call her to discuss costs and meet on another occasion outside the club then, who cares? It's not the club's business what the girl does on her own time and she didn't do anything exposing the club to legal consequences.

 

[bumfie]

You are a captive market, too. You see the girl up close, she's been getting you hot since you went in there, and she knows you want it. So she tries to get what the market will bear, so to speak.

It's only business.

 

[Gotsome]

Take out is expensive because it's problematic for the girl, and you're taking her time away from a secure steady income of regular, perhaps boring, lap dances, but, it would actually be a lot cheaper and risque for f/s in the booth, not that I am saying that these things happen, or that the negotiated rate is around 120-140 because that would be illegal, like maryuana or however you spell it, of course the danger of getting caught would simply be too great a risk, as well as exhilarating and daringly fun, and creative positions would have to be invented of course to conceal exposure, the bj is particularly difficult btw unlike doggy or face to face or sideway slides and hj's which have to be done quickly, but of course I'm not saying that these things actually happen.

 

[here4agoodtime]

If the girl give her phone number to a specific few gents (not to everybody and their buddies) and then they call her to discuss costs and meet on another occasion outside the club then, who cares? It's not the club's business what the girl does on her own time and she didn't do anything exposing the club to legal consequences.

That's the way I always did it. It was never instead of working always after or on a day off. The thing I like about it, is that you can tell if there is some chemistry from the dances. The reason I brought up the question is when I asked a dancer that I was seeing outside the club about a price more like SP's or a more "Girl Friend Experience", she was totaly against any change to our situation. Needless to say I haven't called her since.

 

[Regular Guy]

The Full Service Club!

Take out is expensive because it's problematic for the girl, and you're taking her time away from a secure steady income of regular, perhaps boring, lap dances, but, it would actually be a lot cheaper and risque for f/s in the booth, not that I am saying that these things happen, or that the negotiated rate is around 120-140 because that would be illegal, like maryuana or however you spell it, of course the danger of getting caught would simply be too great a risk, as well as exhilarating and daringly fun, and creative positions would have to be invented of course to conceal exposure, the bj is particularly difficult btw unlike doggy or face to face or sideway slides and hj's which have to be done quickly, but of course I'm not saying that these things actually happen.

Actually with the full service clubs (e.g. The Frontiere, Hilltop and some others) you can get what you like in the booths. The danger of being caught is not so much of an issue. FS goes on all the time. But consider that for 120 -140 you can get a relaxed hour at an incall on a bed as opposed to all the contortionist moves you need in a booth. The girls are used to it though and can manage quite well in a booth. Not sure it it is quite the same though.

Is it exhilarating and daringly fun ? Well maybe not so much when you know it is what normally goes on. But we'll try to keep this between ourselves. Shhhh! Just a word though. If you visit a full service club be sure that it is clear between the both of you as to what is expected. The ladies who work here can be good at making up rules on the go. And that can get expensive.

 

[Techman]

If you actually see a lady that you like and you are at least a semi-regular at the club, don't bring up the topic of money at all. Put a little effort into it and maybe you'll end up with after hours take out and a real GFE experience that lasts for more than just an hour, maybe even overnight, for no cost at all. They always say that the best things in life are free and strip club take out can be one of them.

Techman

 

[Merlot]

If you actually see a lady that you like and you are at least a semi-regular at the club, don't bring up the topic of money at all. Put a little effort into it and maybe you'll end up with after hours take out and a real GFE experience that lasts for more than just an hour, maybe even overnight, for no cost at all. They always say that the best things in life are free and strip club take out can be one of them.

Techman

Okay Tech,

I think we have a "Stud-Muffin" alert here. It's no wonder you don't hobby. That tech sexual magnetism has them waiting in line for all of that "ram" your "hard drive" provides. Unfortunately, being a poor mortal: I inadvertently used your advice with Lil Kim at Cleos. She was the one who brought up a price for services before I said anything about being together after hours. But I am not a regular.

Yeah, I understand you are talking about the probabilities of making a connection. But this doesn't sound much different than having a real attraction for each other under any conditions, except in this case one can get the lady into an intimate situation where the opportunity for a connection is much higher. Still, frequenting the SCs enough to get lucky in the way you describe, with the cover charge, drinks, tips, dance costs, etc, must in total be more expensive than just calling for an SP for a long encounter. Still, a free over-nighter is a magical treat. Well, whatever works and satisfies best.

Good luck,

Merlot

 

[Techman]

Still, frequenting the SCs enough to get lucky in the way you describe must in total be more expensive than just calling for an SP.

Not really. Most people go out anyways, at least I used to always go out with friends on Friday or Saturday nights every week and that usually included stopping in at a club or two. And going to a SC doesn't mean you always have to spend money getting someone to dance so it really isn't that expensive. But this is not something I have ever tried at Cleo's, though I have gone out with at least one dancer from there but she didn't work there at the time. Pretty much all the girls I was successful with worked at Wanda's as that was my club of choice when I was really spending a lot of time in the bars.

As far as SPs go, I guess the wham bam thank you maam provided by a 1 hour encounter just doesn't satisfy me.

By the way...it works with waitresses too.

 

[CLOUD 500]

Hmm? The minute you brought up "Lil' Kim" that explains it(that girl is money hungry). One key variable to this is also it depends on the girl. Some girls are open to it and some are not. But one thing is for sure if you want to get anything stop spending money on her. As soon as you buy dances, buy her drinks you become a client nothing more nothing less. Also if you can get take out it will usually be offered at a price. However when you develop a rapport with girl in the club and spend time with her and she is always around you then it is entirely different. One thing to keep in mind a girl who really likes you is not gonna dance you. There was this one particular stripper I ended up dating and I never bought any dances from her. In fact the first time I meet her she approached me and asked me for dances and I refused her.

Okay Tech,

I think we have a "Stud-Muffin" alert here. It's no wonder you don't hobby. That tech sexual magnetism has them waiting in line for all of that "ram" your "hard drive" provides. Unfortunately, being a poor mortal: I inadvertently used your advice with Lil Kim at Cleos. She was the one who brought up a price for services before I said anything about being together after hours. But I am not a regular.

Yeah, I understand you are talking about the probabilities of making a connection. But this doesn't sound much different than having a real attraction for each other under any conditions, except in this case one can get the lady into an intimate situation where the opportunity for a connection is much higher. Still, frequenting the SCs enough to get lucky in the way you describe, with the cover charge, drinks, tips, dance costs, etc, must in total be more expensive than just calling for an SP for a long encounter. Still, a free over-nighter is a magical treat. Well, whatever works and satisfies best.

Good luck,

Merlot