Hey Frank, know what you mean, I am very shy too! It's incredibly easy for me to freeze up and mumble idiotic things when it comes to making contact with pretty girls if I am attracted to them. It is embarrassing, because I work a lot with the public and for my job I have no problems at all coming up to a lovely lady and starting a conversation with her, as long as I have a professional/ valid reason to do so. Maybe I should become a profesional lover, so I would have a valid reason at all times!! Enjoy your stays here!