Question for Extremely Attractive Men

[bamjay]

Yes, I think so too. It also depends on what a woman is after.

Women have their sexual fantasies, desires, fetishes and so forth just like men. If a woman is after living out any of those, she’ll only care about looks, dick size, whether she feels safe with a guy, confidence, that sort of thing. I mean why should she care about anything else if that’s what she’s after? Literally no reason. It’s why on a casual, hookup basis 20% of the men fuck 80% of the women.

If a woman is after a dating or a relationship, she’ll probably care a lot less about how a guy looks and other things will become more important. Almost every woman dreams about meeting the perfect guy who has the looks, the money, the character, everything. Those guys exist, but there is a very limited supply and those guys have an abundance of choice. So almost every woman ends up making some sort of compromise compared to how she envisions her ideal mate. Once a woman realizes that she’s not able to permanently lock down a top 5% guy, looks will often be one of the first things she’s going to be willing to compromise on.

I don’t think this is very different for men/women, just that the priorities are different.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

^^^^^^ Women will also chose someone they think they can change to suit her wants.

 

[hungry101]

Years ago, a friend of mine finished work at 1am, below average looking super confidence, his best pickup line ( so he says ). Its 2am, I may not be the best looking but here I am..... Guy got laid a lot.
Note: This is a long time ago.

There should be a disclaimer with this one. I think you’re going to get a lot of drinks tossed in your face. I hate being all wet and smelling like daiquiris while ordering my Denny’s breakfast.

I will say that I’ve probably never picked a girl up that didn’t want to be picked up. Also, it was a lot easier for the girl to pick up me than vice versa But I guess this goes without saying.

 

[EagerBeaver]

I think that pick up line was probably a joke and was never actually used.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

^^^^^ I know this person well, it was used. Personally do not think it is offensive, you would know if the person has a sense of humor or not.

 

[chowzilla]

crazy what confidence can do, even if I have a hard time imagining it working.

"You look like trash, can I take you out?" - is that offensive or endearing lol? Can a confident man pull it off?

 

[hungry101]

“That’s a nice dress. Can I talk you out of it?”

 

[hungry101]

^^^^^ I know this person well, it was used. Personally do not think it is offensive, you would know if the person has a sense of humor or not.

I think you can say things like this as an ice breaker if you read the room right.

 

[Fradi]

"You look like trash, can I take you out?" - is that offensive or endearing lol? Can a confident man pull it off?

Perhaps if you are talking to a crack whore and you have $100 bill in your hand.
Otherwise I think most women would be totally pissed and you would probably end up having your balls kicked.

Now Hungry’s line would work well especially after a couple of drinks and with a nice smile on your face.

 

[hungry101]

There is one I saw Norm on Cheers use. He would have the bartender ask the nice looking lady sitting at the bar “Excuse me, the gentleman at the end of the bar would like to buy you an automobile.”

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

There should be a disclaimer with this one. I think you’re going to get a lot of drinks tossed in your face.

What is so offensive about it?

 

[hungry101]

What is so offensive about it?

It used to be that girls couldn’t admit that they were going out to hook up in the first place. Only sluts hook up.

 

[sene5hos]

A handsome guy, addresses a beautiful stranger:
Would you like to have sex with an attractive man like me?
I am not a whore.
But who told you about money?

This guy is a handsome man, but his dating needs to be revised.

 

[Bbw hunter]

It used to be that girls couldn’t admit that they were going out to hook up in the first place. Only sluts hook up.

Wow all this bar talk reminds me of the good old days. My last real go round in these places was only like 15 years ago, yet it seems like a whole new world now. Does it even work like that anymore? I mean, do younger people actually hook up like we used to in the pre-internet days? You know,like going out on the hunt at your favorite watering hole?

 

[chowzilla]

Wow all this bar talk reminds me of the good old days. My last real go round in these places was only like 15 years ago, yet it seems like a whole new world now. Does it even work like that anymore? I mean, do younger people actually hook up like we used to in the pre-internet days? You know,like going out on the hunt at your favorite watering hole?

i general....I would say
only for the top 10 percentile tbh. Some nights are singles nights, and even the most raggedy guy out there can pickup.
I think also younger girls take pleasure in having the power of saying "no", I know a lot of girls who go out just to have fun and have guys hit on them, simply to satisfy their ego dose which will last them until the next night they go out.
It has become less like before, where people would go out to see whats out there and try new experiences
Now nightlife dating, has become real-life Tinder. No, No, No, No, No, No, well I guess Zack Efron isn't coming tonight... ill try again next time.

A few years back @ Winston's, I saw a dude that was super jacked come into the club with his gf, later that night, i think he slapped his gf. Somehow he left with another girl from the same bar, so you know things like this makes it seem like the deck is always stacked against men.

In my college years, I could only pick-up girls when I was in varsity, didn't take me long to realize I had a perk rather than swag.

I have a theory, that women do not like when guys they do not consider attractive, to hit on them, to the point they start doubting their physical appearance in a way that says "am i not pretty enough to repel ugly guys?".

The last girl I picked up at the bar in college, was a girl that was puking outside, and all I did was hold her hair while she spewed all over the sidewalk. Chivalry is not dead! jk jk, it is dead, women killed it, not men.

In my past couple years, I have improved my game by huge margin, a lot of it comes from being confident, to the point you don't even care about women. Whats the point in the end?

Seems like its impossible, but I know at the end of the day, its a numbers game, you miss every shot you don't take, therefore you should keep trying. For those of you who found someone by persistence, perseverance, I salute you.

So yes young people still go out to hook-up, but the results are much different today.

 

[bamjay]

crazy what confidence can do, even if I have a hard time imagining it working.

"You look like trash, can I take you out?" - is that offensive or endearing lol? Can a confident man pull it off?

There are way more offensive ones, like "Can I eat your ass? I want to get a taste of the shit you're going through."

All of them can work, as long as they make her laugh and are delivered in the right moment to be perceived as funny and with humor instead of the literal meaning.

Not for beginners though, that's for sure.