Do SPs call you handsome?

[AlexConor]

I noticed that when I see an SP, I usually get the compliment that I am very handsome or good looking. To be honest, I don’t think I am more than 7/10 (25 year old, full head of hair, muscle with a little belly fat and good hygiene), so sometimes it confuses me that if the SP is really saying those compliments honestly or are they saying that so that I like them and return back for another session.
Can someone relate to this?

 

[DenisZim]

I noticed that when I see an SP, I usually get the compliment that I am very handsome or good looking. To be honest, I don’t think I am more than 7/10 (25 year old, full head of hair, muscle with a little belly fat and good hygiene), so sometimes it confuses me that if the SP is really saying those compliments honestly or are they saying that so that I like them and return back for another session.
Can someone relate to this?

It's just part of the strategy Alex.
The upgraded version of this is Honey or Sweetheart.
Unfortunately lonely men like us are more vulnerable, exposed and only one word can make a difference, and keep you loyal to this particular SP.
The strategy is successful when she can make you feel special.
Her strategy is successful, because you already started to think about this.
But if you like how she makes you feel in her company, this should not bather you.

 

[kstanb]

yes, a few do, the liars!!!!!

lol, it is an easy way to call you without having to memorize your name, I like it, it is much better than "hey hon" or other cheap equivalents

I honestly don't feel special just because but someone says handsome, but it is a little piece of a whole;

 

[LC18]

yes, a few do, the liars!!!!!

I have some genuinely hot clients and I tell them when it’s the case. I have clients that look very good and I tell them too. If they’re normal looking I don’t say anything

But I’m this context, looks aren’t all that. I’ve had a really hot client once that turned out to be an asshole

 

[LeDodo]

I don't think I'm handsome (actually I'm more nerdy ) so I'm wary of such compliments.

Once at work a female colleague told me I was handsome, she was cute and I thought she was flirting but at the end not really ... And this made my hopes and thought about the compliment going down the drain.

The only time I thought the compliment was genuine is back in the days (still at work) when I was helping colleague she said in Cantonese "since when we have such cute colleague in the team?" Thinking that I didn't understand Cantonese. But I did understand and it's the only time I thought it was genuine. She was a petite mature woman lol

Coming back to the OP, I think if it's a compliment coming from a SP I'll see the context and the timing of when it's said.

But at the end of the day I know the compliments I received usually and it's not being an handsome man ...

 

[DenisZim]

I don't think I'm handsome (actually I'm more nerdy ) so I'm wary of such compliments.

Once at work a female colleague told me I was handsome, she was cute and I thought she was flirting but at the end not really ... And this made my hopes and thought about the compliment going down the drain.

The only time I thought the compliment was genuine is back in the days (still at work) when I was helping colleague she said in Cantonese "since when we have such cute colleague in the team?" Thinking that I didn't understand Cantonese. But I did understand and it's the only time I thought it was genuine. She was a petite mature woman lol

Coming back to the OP, I think if it's a compliment coming from a SP I'll see the context and the timing of when it's said.

But at the end of the day I know the compliments I received usually and it's not being an handsome man ...

Unfortunately this is something very common for Canada. People using words like awesome, great, without putting any sense in that. In my culture if someone tells you that you are great it means that you are really great. However, I must to confest that unfortunately it is better to receive a fake smile, than to face an aggressive behavior.

 

[OverIce]

It's just part of the strategy Alex.
The upgraded version of this is Honey or Sweetheart.
Unfortunately lonely men like us are more vulnerable, exposed and only one word can make a difference, and keep you loyal to this particular SP.
The strategy is successful when she can make you feel special.
Her strategy is successful, because you already started to think about this.
But if you like how she makes you feel in her company, this should not bather you.

Bang on!
Same for when you hear “I’m so glad you booked me, I haven’t had a date in over two weeks.” While I know it’s the furthest from the truth, it helps….especially during DATY lol

 

[Julia Sky]

Bang on!
Same for when you hear “I’m so glad you booked me, I haven’t had a date in over two weeks.” While I know it’s the furthest from the truth, it helps….especially during DATY lol

When I tell someone that I haven't seen anyone in x days it's true. I don't have a reason to lie about that and my body sure doesnt lie either lol... I have a busy life and often take time off even if my schedule initially said I was available. Just yesterday I told a client I was horny because I hadn't seen anyone in a few days. My last booking before him was Saturday, after that I was busy doing 10 photoshoots and a short film and then relaxing for a day because that was a lot. Lol

Same when I give a compliment. I have multiple "types" and if I say you're handsome I mean it. If I say you have nice eyes or nice hands I mean it. I understand that many escorts probably lie about these things but it's definitely not every escort. Some of us would rather not say anything than give compliments that we dont believe in!

It's kind of sad that people think all escorts are extremely fake but I get it I guess. I also often think people are lying when they compliment me lol

 

[jeffmathers]

When I tell someone that I haven't seen anyone in x days it's true. I don't have a reason to lie about that and my body sure doesnt lie either lol... I have a busy life and often take time off even if my schedule initially said I was available. Just yesterday I told a client I was horny because I hadn't seen anyone in a few days. My last booking before him was Saturday, after that I was busy doing 10 photoshoots and a short film and then relaxing for a day because that was a lot. Lol

Same when I give a compliment. I have multiple "types" and if I say you're handsome I mean it. If I say you have nice eyes or nice hands I mean it. I understand that many escorts probably lie about these things but it's definitely not every escort. Some of us would rather not say anything than give compliments that we dont believe in!

It's kind of sad that people think all escorts are extremely fake but I get it I guess. I also often think people are lying when they compliment me lol

To my knowledge no one lies to clients. It would feel bad to tell a client an extremely high compliment when no one present thinks that. It would come off as rude. I used to date a woman about 15 years older than me who had a lot of stories from when she used to strip and a struggle for her is she'd compliment voices but the voices she liked were not very masculine voices. So she had to stop because the people she complimented would think she's being sarcastic.

 

[OverIce]

While it maybe an unpopular opinion, I’m more than fine with a SP “fabricating the truth” if it makes for a better experience!
If she wants to fake an O to make me feel like a sexual goddess, please, fake 2, 3 even lol

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I have clients who are genuinely conventionally attractive sometimes, and some are cute. I try to give compliments to new clients when I can, but I try to stay honest.. I try to find something good looking about everyone. Why would I be lying? Also, physical appearance isn't everything, and attractiveness is subjective. It's true that there are clients who were particularly my type, and I told them.. But that doesn't mean I like them better than the others.

I had a client at a MP a few years ago who looked like a calendar model, but he was cocky and arrogant and pretty rough physically. What matters more is how I'm treated and if we have similarities in terms of interests and personality. I also feel slightly guilty when I tell one of my clients I find him particularly attractive, because I feel bad I didn't tell everyone else. I had a client before get mad that I didn't tell him.. It was weird.

Not everything SP do is fake, and if someone tells all her clients they are handsome it might be because she thinks it's the polite and kind thing to do. When you're a SP you see a lot of different types of men and it's important to try to find something appealing about everyone. I've noticed that really often clients are self conscious about their physical appearance and they act like I will be disgusted by them, but it's not the case. I'm capable of feeling neutral at least about any body type. I've never had a client walk in and think ''oh no, he's so unattractive'' lol

 

[PSEfreak]

I won't have sex with them until they do

 

[hankiepankie]

Sorry to break it to you OP but I'm the most handsome. It's true because an SP told me. (I also have the biggest penis)

 

[DenisZim]

I have clients who are genuinely conventionally attractive sometimes, and some are cute. I try to give compliments to new clients when I can, but I try to stay honest.. I try to find something good looking about everyone. Why would I be lying? Also, physical appearance isn't everything, and attractiveness is subjective. It's true that there are clients who were particularly my type, and I told them.. But that doesn't mean I like them better than the others.

I had a client at a MP a few years ago who looked like a calendar model, but he was cocky and arrogant and pretty rough physically. What matters more is how I'm treated and if we have similarities in terms of interests and personality. I also feel slightly guilty when I tell one of my clients I find him particularly attractive, because I feel bad I didn't tell everyone else. I had a client before get mad that I didn't tell him.. It was weird.

Not everything SP do is fake, and if someone tells all her clients they are handsome it might be because she thinks it's the polite and kind thing to do. When you're a SP you see a lot of different types of men and it's important to try to find something appealing about everyone. I've noticed that really often clients are self conscious about their physical appearance and they act like I will be disgusted by them, but it's not the case. I'm capable of feeling neutral at least about any body type. I've never had a client walk in and think ''oh no, he's so unattractive'' lol

English is not my language, but I found a difference between handsome and attractive.
1. HANDSOME - she wants to develop a loyal client.
2. ATTRACTIVE - very possible she is honest saying this.

Let me say it like this. I believe that in this industry there are two types of men:
1. Boom-boom chao.
2. Type like me - I really don't know what means daty, bbbj. It's mostly about the connection and presence. For those types of men one single word can make a difference.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Sorry to break it to you OP but I'm the most handsome. It's true because an SP told me. (I also have the biggest penis)

Honestly I don't feel comfortable complimenting guys on the size of their dick. Once I told a client I thought he had a big dick, because he really did, and he said ''you're saying this because I'm Asian right?''.. I was shocked... He took it the wrong way. I never said it again after that. Sometimes guys will tell me they think their dick is small, when it isn't true, and I don't feel super comfortable correcting them later. I don't really want to entertain this type of insecurity lol

However, if a man tells me he is worried about his physical appearance, I always take time to reassure him and sometimes we have a little conversation about beauty standards, which men are also affected by.

 

[Anong]

She has to be blind to call me handsome. So no one calls me...

My mother used to call me "Prince"
To every mother children are "Prince and Princess"

 

[TheBlob]

Lol sometimes, and i don't believe a word of it.

 

[LeDodo]

Honestly I don't feel comfortable complimenting guys on the size of their dick. Once I told a client I thought he had a big dick, because he really did, and he said ''you're saying this because I'm Asian right?''.. I was shocked... He took it the wrong way. I never said it again after that. Sometimes guys will tell me they think their dick is small, when it isn't true, and I don't feel super comfortable correcting them later. I don't really want to entertain this type of insecurity lol

However, if a man tells me he is worried about his physical appearance, I always take time to reassure him and sometimes we have a little conversation about beauty standards, which men are also affected by.

As an Asian I grew up with the unconscious bias and constant remarks on dick size.
Recently when chatting with classmates (we're in our early forties), one of them has his all greyed hair while I have none. I said maybe because of my Asian genes. Then he goes about the dick size.
I've always dealt with this insecurity but it's not always about you dealing with it but others who will keep on bashing with it.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Recently when chatting with classmates (we're in our early forties), one of them has his all greyed hair while I have none. I said maybe because of my Asia ln genes. Then he goes about the dick size.

That's not a friend. What an asshole.

I understand where these insecurities come from.. And I know for instance there are really lean men who have always felt they were too small, and I have to reassure them that I find their body attractive. I also reassure bigger men that it's okay for them to have the body that they have.

I meet a lot of men who have insecurities about their physical appearance and often their worries are really unfounded. I also feel like men get complimented on their looks less often.. Women get complimented by their peers a lot, but not men.

 

[LeDodo]

That's not a friend. What an asshole.

I understand where these insecurities come from.. And I know for instance there are really lean men who have always felt they were too small, and I have to reassure them that I find their body attractive. I also reassure bigger men that it's okay for them to have the body that they have.

I meet a lot of men who have insecurities about their physical appearance and often their worries are really unfounded. I also feel like men get complimented on their looks less often.. Women get complimented by their peers a lot, but not men.

You're really an angel sent to earth