I’ll add also that clients prefer agency as it’s just less risky in terms of physical appearance and service. Implicitly, you trust they hire attractive women since they are incentivized to do so and you also expect a certain level of service. With independants, you are pretty much going on...
why do you need to click with your paid dates? You’re not dating them. You’re paying them for their time. You’re paying her to like you basically. You should do an experiment and act like a douche with your date and see if she leaves. I’m betting she doesn’t.
Do what you wishes. Your boss doesn’t care nor does he want to know what you do after work. The woman probably have more reason to be more fearful that you expose her than the other way around since she’s the sex worker and not you.
Why don't you let it go; you are her client, not her boyfriend. Second, even if it's somehow fair to demand an explanation, none of us could give you an definite answer, it could be hundreds of things. You just sound clingy now.