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I personally don't like that phrase ''they're clients for a reason''.. Yes the reason is they have the money to afford it, or they already took the plunge. A lot of clients do have issues but everyone does. ''issues'' is a vague word. Someone could have trauma they need help through, someone...

Just a note, I think when clients want to go on free dates with us, I don't think it means they want a relationship necessarily. They just want access to who we are outside of sessions, which is understandable if they like us.. But I doubt all these guys who talk about going to the resto or...

Seriously. Why is this being brought up here? If I listen to what my clients say, when they are single they hire one SP for a while or a few but they stop once they get into a relationship. I know if someone has money it makes it accessible for him to pay for sex when he wants, but the truth is...

In the past few weeks there's been a conspiracy theory of how we are forcing social time and long bookings on clients.. My conspiracy theory : a lot of clients here want us to go on unpaid dates with them and give them a bunch of extra time and force ourselves to offer services we don't like ;)...

I would date someone who's paid for sex before because what I realized is that a lot of people have at some point in their lives, and they often are not cheaters.. But some people's clientele is a lot of married men, so I can see how this would give them this bias.. Also if there's the...

Honestly, I feel the same way as you.. But I'm trying to avoid reading most threads. This one gave me the impression it was worth commenting on..

I think it's sad that so many of you actually don't believe you're good looking.. :( I'm sure not everyone agrees with that.

That's just me but I don't treat my clients better if I think they're attractive.. or at least I don't think I do. I imagine maybe it's different for others. I think the pressure men put on themselves comes from other men, often. A lot of guys tell me they wish they were super muscular but most...

I also think sometimes a therapist or another type of professional is better to talk to about certain things than a friend... Depending on the subject. I know I'm a good listener and I'm ok with hearing certain things but not everyone is and it's a matter of respecting each other's boundaries...

Exactly! I think people should be able to express their boundaries. If I don't want to hear about something, I tell the person "sorry, this isn't something I'm comfortable talking about" or "I'm not really in a place where I can give any advice or feedback right now".. I also think it's...

You just put your finger on something that bothers me in my personal life... Some people just "listen" but it's not enough, if you are just going to listen passively in a dissociated manner it's best to just say you'd rather talk about something else

From what I understand of your personality you wouldn't feel offended if the person declines! :) I agree that some may not be aware of these boundaries.. I understand this process involves intimacy and connection, too. But the client has to learn that if he wants to get to know the provider...

You have a good point here. If we appreciate someone and try to find the good in them, we will find them attractive no matter what. I've dated people, both men and women, who were not my type initially but they grew on me. Same thing with my friends and the SP I do duos with, they are the most...

That's not a friend. What an asshole. I understand where these insecurities come from.. And I know for instance there are really lean men who have always felt they were too small, and I have to reassure them that I find their body attractive. I also reassure bigger men that it's okay for them...

That's exactly how I see it.. And some clients think that us not wanting to go out with them for free means we don't like them or don't like men. Newsflash I hang out with men for free lol they are my friends. But they didn't book me as clients. It doesn't mean I think my clients aren't the type...

Honestly I don't feel comfortable complimenting guys on the size of their dick. Once I told a client I thought he had a big dick, because he really did, and he said ''you're saying this because I'm Asian right?''.. I was shocked... He took it the wrong way. I never said it again after that...

I have clients who are genuinely conventionally attractive sometimes, and some are cute. I try to give compliments to new clients when I can, but I try to stay honest.. I try to find something good looking about everyone. Why would I be lying? Also, physical appearance isn't everything, and...