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I'm not expecting you to when you are paying. Besides there are more ways to enjoy the time too. It is why I specified when I was single, I wasn't a SP then either so was a valid comparison for what I then concidered a stud. Anything less I refused to repeat again. As an SP the rules are...

I had to re-write and re-word over and over to sound neutral. But was hopeing to hear some reasons that I might be able to agree with. :rolleyes: Here's one I could suggest; Feeling like a stud because you made her orgasm a few times before climaxing. To me that would be a way I viewed a...

Agreed. So at the risk of controversy to the thread. I am curious, what makes you as men feel like a STUD? I am curious, because I see 2 ways this gets used, and rarely do I agree with the person calling themselves a stud, as being a good thing.

I think I live half in this world, and half in a fairytale. :rolleyes: If I wasn't actually living it, I would think I was delusional or making it up.

It's I do understand about what the expected version of the acronym is to hobbiests, and what it means to new people who aren't fluent in provider acronyms, who are looking for someone they can connect with. I do agree it is underhanded to present falsely. Which is why I am sure to request from...

I don't know much else you are talking about in your message, but I shortened it.... Your last part, answered your own question on how beginners, and all who partake in seeing us, should behave to not make a provider you wish to see, uncomfortable to see you. Be respectful of boundaries, and...

This is what GFE has meant and always meant to me. And when I first started, was advertised by the agency as GFE, not because of bbbj, but because of the emotional connection people feel with me. I feel it necessary to clarify safe GFE because it is protected. Being with someone you can feel...

I don't use it for lack of being wet either. But between friction and fun, it helps prevent the condom from breaking. Even if i have an/several orgasms, enough friction can happen for that moisture to evaporate. Which is the thick lube? Silicone?-not recommended for use with condoms though. I...

Oh no.. I fully blame it on myself lol.. I know there is a whole line of humor my logical mind misses and misunderstands is intended as humor. It's been a life long realization that I have a 'dunce zone' in humor.

No one is bashing men. We are calling out human behavior that would make the current threads goal of a star rating not as great the idea as the OP thought. In theory, everyone is honest and only rates those they have seen and rates honestly. But in practice, that is not the how things play out...

Oh I agree. I will also admit, because of how media presents us, and what I have witnessed some people treat & talk about providers, I had trouble accepting in myself that this was something I wanted and needed in my life to feel fulfilled. It has only been since I have had the pleasure of...

I was only pointing out 2 opposite extremes, there is always every shade of Grey between the 2. I don't believe in judging others for what they desire as long as it is consenting adults. If I were to shame you for 25 yrs, then I would be a hypocrite as I have clients even younger who contact me...

We get your point... you don't want to hear that there is a dangerous side of this job. You want your fantasy that this is a blessing to do this and we all have great expieriences and should love what we do... Please understand the ones we comment on in the negative, are rarely the hobbyists...

LoL, sorry, the humor was outside my catch. (I can be pretty dense with some kinds of humor.) I love puns, but sarcastic humor can go over my head and under my feet, leaving me completely clueless a funny was made.

Half your age, I can't really say much, half is 25. At least the brain has fully developed. School should be done, and startting into a career. The creepiness kind of sets in if you knew them as children, and/or if you prevent them from their natural life progression to be fast forwarded to the...

It could also be how are smile contorts our face... I can take 100 photos, I am more likely to post, or share photos that don't have my full smile, 1, Even though others think it is cute, what I see when I smile are squinty eyes, pudgy cheeks, and thinner lips from how the face contorts. 2...

Those are the ones I would think see it as a hobby, and refer to themselves as hobbyist, because they don't see the providers they see, as whole people but objects for their gratification. When you take the time to see the person as more, it becomes more real, not just a hobby, not just time...

If someone likes bbw, a spinner might get 1/5. If someone likes spinners, the bbw provider might likely get 1/5. SP doesn't offer anal 1/5. SP had reasonable boundaries, 1/5. ...ect. It is all relative. Who you would repeat with is such a combination of attraction, expierience, and what you...

I think in this way you fall under the category of clients who book with personality in mind. There is a difference between clients who book on personality, and hobbyist who seem to see a body they desire, with no reguard to the person who has that body. Do you see yourself as a hobbyist? I...

Depends on the provider. But I'm sure there are some who don't need to pretend to have fun and just do.