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OK, Ladies.... We need more feedback. A couple of suggestions, see what you think. 1. Build it up... Don't go straight to the clit. Build it up. Lots of choices here. Massage. Back rib. Suck on her nipples. Kiss her neck. But tease, also, like you're going for the pussy. Mention...

You are right. I not mean I (a man) CAN force a woman to orgasm. I was speaking about her feeling. That she can relax, and free herself, and let it happen...because "it's was beyond my control". And, of course, I do not mean the man is mean or rough in any way. Just she has that feeling of...

To me, this post (above) is well said and IMPORTANT advice. Focusing too much on the orgasm can be a cock block (ok, an orgasm block). Yes, as soon as I say it, to many this is very obvious. So, I think, for many women. Better to start DATY with the notion (for her at least), that you want...

Hi Cinderella, Well, that's a challenge. I may have to put in the field research! The things I do for science and you guys! (Oh, the torture of the scarcasm!!!) *** Ok, one more suggestion for the general reader. From the other thread. one suggestion was also use your finger or fingers...

In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is king! You selfish asshole! (haha) You make me laugh. SSJ3....no worries, you are SO much better than every other man in Montreal, we will never catch up! (And I'm not from Montreal.) Seriously? Because I like women, and they deserve more...

Hi Cinderella, OK, I totally believe you. My field research confirms that not only are women complicated, but their pussies respond differently at different times. Yep. I get that. BUT... START writing the beginning of the encyclopedia article. Show us one way that a man licked the pussy of...

Hi all, I started this thread with a different title. "Giving Head". Here: https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?177640-Giving-Head-quot-You-go-to-my-head-quot But I just realized.... Giving Head can sound like it is just the woman giving head to the man, sucking a phallus (ok, choose...

Hi Sarah, That song goes back to 1969 (an odd year in the US) and Jackie DeShannon. And later others covered the song. I agree with you. AND...that song has a certain mood. People can have sex in a quite different mood than that. In that way, I agree with Jalimon. AND, I agree more with...

I really liked Margot as a person. I found her body...interesting, not classically "pretty" to me. But I regret that I only saw her once.

Happy, I went to the website. I have to PAY! (Kind of laughing to myself.) I will later. Anyway, I found the video with Nina Hartley, which opened my eyes a good while ago. I noticed that there are LOTS of things she says that I still don't do. Oh, it's free. Here...

SolTee, I will try watching these videos. I remember a Nina Hartley video that was good. My concern: I want to visualize what my tongue can see, be oriented, then smoothly do just the right micro thing. A video seems way too far away from what my tongue can “see”.... Does that make...

Hi Hanna. Asking is always a good idea. My scientific studies with a wide sample set...ok, busted....but with some ladies the body language is, some liked it. You might be right that some in my sample did not....maybe they did not give feedback to me because they liked other things more. I...

Ok, happy. Which 2 ideas worked the best?

Absolutely. The sucking thing is a thing. Vary the amount of suction. Suck it softly like you are sucking an oyster out of (off of) its shell. Suck around there gently, and then, if she likes that, suck more firmly. Don't go crazy. Be gentle. I am guessing part of the thrill for the girl...

Ladies, Please help us out here. We have some advice above, mostly from men. Well, Cinderella talked about how women feel about being licked, which I think is very valuable. Much like men, you have to make love to the brains and the self-image and help them let go....as much as add a zap to...

Hmmm. I am a little different. With the right lady, I do not feel her vulva or pussy is dirty at all. I want to. I want the taste. I want to feel her come. And then that taste (a bit tangy usually). I have liked some ladies so much, that I thought of DATO. In part, because I could tell the...

I love DATY too. As you might have guessed. I am NOT in favor of STDs. I am in favor of good hygiene. Also, I favor good smells over bad smells (duh)...although some of that is personal taste. (That is, a good smell to one person is not so good to another....that is personal taste or the...

+1 to what Sarah said. One lady said recently said the secret was Vasigil. It's the PH balance. She smelled great. How do I know it was because of the Vasigil? I don't. But I have read the PH balance is quite key. Something like WEBMD or something. Check it out. Tell me if I lied. One...

Human communication. Sometimes, I think it is an oxymoron. Let's a agree. A flat quick "hey" as a greeting, with about nothing to follow for a minute. ... That's not a good start, probably. Words depend on who is talking, who is hearing, and the context. And the musicality. But often...

Hi Hungry.... No, I did not correct her. She had learned years ago. She was talking about years ago (3? 5?) when she first learned about fellatio and saw it on the web. She was laughing about how stupid she was, at the time. I was cringing, thinking how bad it would feel and that it was my...