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Right on! Someone else mentioned FOMO!! It’s exactly that, IMO. If it looks like the girls are always fully booked, guys will try every day to book them, hoping that they’re “lucky” enough to get a spot. The schedule is barely out and some girls are already fully booked! When I used to...

I’m moved on from agencies. I’m seeing mostly Indies now and my ATF regularly! No interest in refreshing my screen a bunch of times, hoping that I am “lucky” enough to be one of 5-6 guys to see a popular SP on a given day. Or having to wait months to book a popular SP! Either these popular...

They’re not hiring a plumber, they’re spending intimate moments with someone. You might say it’s all about money, sure, but these ladies are not robots. They’re human beings that have feelings and still need to feel comfortable with who they see. I’ve heard some horror stories from some SPs...

I feel that women should be able to choose which clients they see. There could be many reasons that they choose not to see a certain race of people, most have already been stated in this thread. None have to do with racism. They’re giving their intimacy to the client, so obviously they have to...

I feel for you. Wow, losing 4 favourites in a short amount of time is tough to deal with. It’s tough losing an ATF, it’s happened to all of us. My current ATF is the one I’ve had the best link with. We enjoy each other’s company, it feels better than with other ladies that I’ve met. I don’t...

I agree. I think chemistry is important and so is getting to know each other, which is why I repeat when it clicks. And then the rest will follow. I don’t believe in asking for a menu or services because a lot of it is based on YMMV. I don’t mean to demean some guys, and we all have our ways of...

Grateful for: - family and friends - nice weather - saw my ATF and had a wonderful time! - presently in good health

I totally agree. If someone is willing to hobby, it shouldn’t be about trying to get the least expensive encounter. I know money doesn’t grow on trees, and I value my money as well. But when I hobby, I want to make sure I will have a good time and that it will be a memorable encounter, and...

It depends if you prefer quantity or quality. The SPs would definitely prefer John A!! I realized that we have a completely different perspective on this hobby. I value good chemistry, repeats, and longer appointments, which seems to be the opposite of you. But it’s all good, there’s no right...

The incalls for the Indies that I saw recently were very clean. Very nice apartments as well! I’m pretty sure it’s like that for all the Indies that advertise on tryst or merb. There was only 1 CLEAN towel in the washroom for me to use, fresh bed sheets, etc. Day and night compared to the...

This doesn’t have to be a debate! It’s just my opinion, like you have your opinion. If you can have MSOG for longer appointments and the lady is all for it, good for you. I also saw Arielle, Kate and others in the past that were into MSOG, and it was great. But as mentioned in a previous post...

I usually have 1 SOG, so MSOG is less important to me. Lately I’ve booked some ladies for 2 hours, and sometimes I’ll have just 1 SOG. I enjoy the total experience, having a glass of wine, teasing, cuddling, pillow talk and of course, the sex. Chemistry is extremely important for me. For a...

^^^^ Same for me. I started seeing Indy’s lately, and I haven’t had a cancellation yet. I’m a local with a flexible schedule, so if ever there is a cancellation, we’ll just reschedule for another day!

Just use common sense and follow some of the tips already mentioned. DO NOT stand in front of the incall for 5-10 mins, while nervously looking at your phone waiting for the appt/code. Walk around away from the incall and just go in once you’ve received the code. Do not enter the main entrance...

Grateful for: - good health - family and friends - preparing for a nice vacation - had an amazing time with a new SP that I started seeing lately - playing golf, enjoying summer - nice to be living in Montreal and enjoying all the wonderful things that come with it! Enjoy the day and the...

^^^^ (post 1232) I agree with @Fradi . If you have to have a raffle and wait a year to see an Indy, then you shouldn’t be hobbying at all. Everyone has different budgets, frequency of hobbying and preferences (Indy’s vs agency). Stick to a budget and hobby according to what fits in your budget...

I used to see mainly agency SPs, but lately I saw a couple of Indy’s. My experience with Indy’s has been quite good, from ease of communication and booking, flexibility for the date/time and a more personalized experience. I guess each one’s experience is different and preferences vary. I...

Wow! First of all, how did you manage to take a “vacation” alone, despite having a family? I guess any excuse would work, but just wondering. What’s your end game? If it works out with this young lady, you’ll leave your wife? Or you’ll keep having these 2-3 day flings with that lady, despite...

I understand that you don’t want to call them out. But like @Giselle Montreal mentioned, that’s why it will never stop. I am also fed with some of the crap when dealing with some agencies. Lately I also became disillusioned with agencies, which is why I have switched to seeing Indy’s. I was...

It’s extremely difficult to stop. Not sure what to tell you. I tried to cut down the frequency a bit, seems to work for a while, but then I go in phases where I book frequently again!