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And yet it is still safer than bbbj for that same thing... this is on the surface, you reach out for it even... yet providers are almost pressured into giving bbbj, when this same risk is still higher on her own throat having the man's member rammed down it with no protection, meaning if there...

Not sure what TDS is so I just assume SP, and will substitute with provider. every experience is different. I guess your looking for incall with this being the opener, there are also outcall that meet you at your own place if that makes you more comfortable. Your thinking too much about the...

LoL. It's funny I chose to get into this hobby, as I have always felt uncomfortable having people spend money on me, a life of being taught nothing comes without strings attached. Paying me for my time feels different though, as the stipulations are pretty clear cut, and there are no added...

This is where I really feel uncultured, or at a loss... I haven't been on many dates in my life, and only relationship I was in where we did go on dates regularly, he often had to order for me. I would suggest he order 2 things he liked, in case I didn't like what he ordered for me. -Reason 1...

No. It's just less visits for those who need to save up to be able to afford it. I am flattered when I know someone can only see me once every few months because they need to save up to be able to see someone. Some of these are the sweetest souls, but just don't have much to their name. I find...

So question... ??? Which is worse. An SP who says something to hurt your feelings, or an SP to walk out on you without even accepting any money from you. I would hope someone who had this happen to them would understand their behavior is the likely cause. But could see how someone might feel...

Yes. All the time, it's part of foreplay. Very taboo things I look forward to possibly doing with my master one day. (Unmentionable things i am not comfortable sharing with anyone but him) Actually my favorite clients are the ones who allow me the opportunity to get mentally in my fantasy...

Ok. For those to mention about pricing and cost of living, I will make 1 comparison over years... Comparing agency prices, as they are more comparable as indies prices vary much more; -2001, minimum wage was $7.00/hr, agency prices were $140. (20 hrs of a minimum wage earner) -2024, minimum...

All the time. Same as what @LC18 said, and it also helps prevent the condom from breaking.

It doesn't phase me. When they want me they contact me back. It is nice to know he enjoys my company enough that he keeps haveing me back. It doesn't affect how I feel about him, because I am not in a committed relationship with him. It isn't the same thing as if I found my partner with someone...

I think it also depends what kind of visit you are asking for. If it a visit planned well in advance for a significant amount of time, it is better recieved than someone asking for a ASAP appointment without any planning time, asking for detailed clothing items. In that case my answer is I am...

I haven't really thought much about it. In my personal life less hair has often been prefered. But have found as long as he grooms it is good. A soft beard can feel really nice on the skin. Though like shaved to short hair on genitals. Men I have dated in relationships, I have shaved their...

I don't ask them their relationship situation. I figure if they want me to know they will bring it up. As outcall often it is a giveaway if they are single, or have a partner. It is their business though. I have had sessions that were more like therapy, either because they were dealing with...

I've been asked this by someone who when I said I was taken said he didn’t partake in taken women, lol.. till he contacted me 3 more times asking the same thing and eventually made an appointment anyways. Convincing himself that because I wasn't doing this sneakily behind my man's back, that it...

Just because time is paid, doesn't necessarily make it fake. I like real connections with people I meet and see. Though I wouldn't ask someone out after, as my time is with my family when I am not out visiting. I have to pay childcare. And well I tend to need to escape into games to decompress...

I think the moment someone asks for directly what services do you provide, and even worse what is your menu, it is a bothersome question to many SPs. Sure some have a menu ready to share, but most I know of want to be able to tailor make the expierience for the client they are seeing, not have a...

@vanhamm glad to see you back. I was enjoying our conversations on your success for your health venture. And have been rooting for you. And fully understand how past actions done against us, form who we are today. I just wish you healing over the past offenses against you, and that you are able...

The providers who provide bad service are called out on this forum, and often don't have the same criteria and demand for who they will see. This is our way to inform those who could use the tips on how to not get ignored by quality providers, because of their bad habits. The habbits we view...

They want to incentives people to work, don't tax them so much, and let them actually see a benifit from the work they do. Forcing them to work more will only lead to more mental health issues, and more burnout which means more payouts in cost for those who just can't handle being in the...

I'm not. It felt nice to be wooed, and I get how vanilla people don't understand bdsm. Often to a lot of them they hear the stories of people forced into it, or don't understand how someone can enjoy pain in a controlled trusting environment, while with a client it would just be a horrifying...