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Shyman...I have seen this (she starts to take the man for granted...is how I will say it quickly). Yes, some SPs are like that. It has happened to me. BUT, I do not find it as common as you seem to. Could be many reasons why. Maybe "love" is blind is one of them (ie, I'm blind). Maybe I...

Yep. Definitely. Picky point....I am not sure "mileage" is that phrase I would use. Just sayin' From the woman's viewpoint (and some will tell you)... they are nervous and trying to figure out if you're a bad guy (annoying guy) the first time. After one or two times, they know you, they...

We researchers need to be clearer about what we are researching. So....you mean...? You mean DATO? (I think not.) You mean coming at the pussy from "around" her backside? For example, she's on her side and you are behind her, and she spreads her legs and you have comfortable access to...

I feel indebted to Cloudy lately, so I quote him. (Indebted to others too.) What did the OP ask? Our little jewel, our gift? Her title asked about expectations, but then she said: "what are you hoping to get out of the experience?" So, my answer: Expectations -- I try to have none. But...

The nicest compliment is the most sincere one. Si c'est bon! She grabs you by the head and holds you there. And you can feel everything she is going through in her release. And then she pulls you up, looks in your eyes, and then kisses you, just so. She might mumble some words, but that's the...

Good! So, tell us about "your friend" and what she likes. Don't be shy. Spill. Further field research: I am find many ladies like the sucking. And, depending on her anatomy and things, there are different kinds of sucking. Some ladies find it very intense. So, you might want to go gently at...

Hi all! I shared some of this thread with an SP in Toronto. She was impressed (not sure exactly in which ways). But I think she sees the thread as educational. And maybe a bit as entertaining.... Can you contribute? What are you getting from it?

Agree. + Get lots of sleep. Your brain is sharper, you're more alive, it all goes better. 8 hours!

I think about all the fun I'm going to give her, and take a $20 out. JK. (Although I have been practicing the violin and it's getting better, they tell me. +1 for flexible hips. Just discovered that if she is on top of you (reverse mish kinda), then fast thrusting into...

Hi Cloudy. Thanks! I must say that your one recommendation that I followed up on (Elie) and the one person we discussed (Lola)...wow! So, yes, I will follow up on this one as well. For sure!! (And some others!) Thanks again!! Pour toutes! My interest right now is not to understand the...

Can anyone really lie with their clothes off? I suppose they can. But I think most do not. Women are kind. They say the nice things. They tend not to overstate. For example, they do not want to be the one who says "I love you" first. Their kindness is sincere. Sometimes we hear their small...

Well said Cloudy. And later tell me who she is. She must be awesome. (I think a bit of Elie.) She probably has a selfie. (smile) But right now...how does one get the chemistry started, when first meeting her? What have you done, what do you think or feel would help? At that beginning stage.

What makes great chemistry happen? (Yes, there are other important factors...I want to focus on this one for now.) I think we can learn by discussing. So, if you can get the girl to laugh, that is huge. Needs to be a real laugh. Be cool. Be relaxed. Talk with a deep voice. Act friendly...

I have been experimenting with this sucking idea. LOTS of ways of sucking. Seems to be pretty popular, ie, well-liked. (Not to mention the pun, well-licked.) Not sure everyone likes it. Some are surprised by it, might be too intense. But in general, well worth more field research...

The suggestion above was based on a theory...or an experience. That a woman won't say directly (and find it hard to say directly) exactly what they want you to do. First: I think some would like it if you "forced" her to ask for it and to describe in detail what she wants. By being "forced"...

Not sure how much we have said this. But.... Two ways in which she shows she likes it. Have her put her hand on your head. Her hands will tell you what she likes, a lot. Let her move her hips. Another tell. Put your finger just on the outside of her pussy, just outside the canal. When you...

Well, hmmm. If I like the woman (I mean like, and that is not rare but by far not universal), I just love to lick her, taste her, feel her moan. Love it! (Not that I would not want to f**k her, but, licking her is wonderful.) Am I good at it? Well, I hear too many good things, so usually...

Hi Sol Tee, First, I see your point. Depends on the situation exactly. And the tone of voice, expression, sense of humor.... many things. In some cases... yep, could come off the wrong way. Second... Well, tbh, I kinda had this situation in another town. A girl who "shoulda known" and...

Hi Cloudy, Your comment is of course fair. First, I am not in favor of forcing anyone to read this thread. In fact, I am pretty sure most people (who come to Merb) are NOT reading this thread. This thread is for the next guy like me, who... (1) Did not know there was learning to be done...

BTW, here's something you might say.... after you have built things up a bit, at least. "Darling, I am about to go to town on your pussy. Do you want to freshen up a bit...[short pause].. before I do? Or did you already?" All in a matter of fact, comfortable, positive tone. If she just...