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I've NEVER had anyone inquire about this.. That is actually pretty common hehe

A lot of people explore their fetishes with their partners or fwb.. But I do agree that a SP who can provide a certain fetish can fulfill the need of someone who doesn't feel sexually satisfied in their relationship.

My point exactly, it's not a hobby and honestly in my opinion ''wanting to fuck young women'' isn't a need lol. I don't personally feel the need to fuck very young women or men, maybe because I don't objectify these people. I also disagree that hobbies generally have an addictive nature, except...

I definitely think that a lot of psychiatrists ignore unhealed trauma and unhealthy life situations that could be leading up to mental illness symptoms, which is unfortunate because unless changes aren't made, medication is just a temporary band aid, so I see your point.

Not all clients have specific fetishes. But yeah, I think seeing escorts should be a way to fulfill a need and take care of yourself in a respectful way.

I feel like clients came up with the expression ''the hobby'' and call themselves hobbyists.. I'm not a huge fan of those terms. And while I don't think it's a bad thing for someone to see many SP's, some of us refer to a certain type of client as hobbyists.. And yes, it's clients who are very...

just a reminder that not all clients view themselves as ''hobbyists'' and a LOT of clients have only seen escorts a few times, only hire escorts on occasion, only see an escort or two after a traumatic incident or during a period of grief, or see the same person all the time. that includes...

That's really kind of you to say! That's very true. And a lot of the active members seem to favor agencies and parlor over indies and seem to have certain opinions about rates and looks.......

No, and if that happened I would refuse. I've had a few friends tell me that on their 18th birthday a father figure or older friend took them to see a SP and they were really traumatized and upset by the experience. If someone with little or no experience wants to book me, I will see them, but...

Yeah. I think psychiatry can be an oppressive institution and medication CAN be harmful, but there are definitely some competent professionals out there, and advising someone to quit their meds can be really dangerous

I agree! But I also think it's true that we can't please everyone... That's why I'm wondering sometimes if asking questions to clients here is that great of an idea. I try to make conversation, but the vast majority of clients who participate actively in this forum are not my clientele, no...

I'm not ambidextrous but I don't think it's that much harder to give a handjob with my left hand hehe

he was absolutely trolling

Same here.. and honestly I'm not doing it to compete with other women. I think it's really odd that so many men think women hate each other and are competing for their attention.. If anything I'm doing it more for women than men because women tend to appreciate makeup

are my glasses cute?

I had a client tell me his new born niece's name is Luna before, and he decided to call me Lily. I was fine with it, as long as he doesn't refer to me that way to other people. :)

lol yes I would and no. also sandals with socks can be a look, depending

Sometimes it's hard to tell even for me if someone is wearing makeup because some people are so great at pulling off a very very natural look. A lot of people assume I wear a TON of makeup because I like bright colors, but I don't do contouring and I don't even wear foundation, just a tinted...

2nd question for SP's : what do you wish clients were more aware of?

I don't think studies are reliable. I've met a lot of men who loved women wearing makeup, and I've met men who believed women weren't wearing makeup when they actually wore.. Or they believed that a woman was wearing little makeup, when it fact she was wearing tons of it. I've definitely said...