How old R U &what U do in life. Yr chance is at the bottom of the ladder ,This is hobby not even a wish,just a leisure thing even less than finding a parking in centre Ville never mind other hustle bustle ,jostle of life !
Shower,sauna Jacuzzi ,swimming pool do not have the erotic aura,romantic ambience of bed-room .One of the most unsexy places &activities of human,unless one fantasize about St- Tropez.
friend&chilling out without hanky panky not an oddity,after all they have a compartementalized life! ,even the husbands don`t get free ride,.Once a ``Sp`` toujours a ``Sp``!!