Most taboo fantasy

Rebaynia said:

Well to be fair, there are many fantasies I don't share because they are illegal. It is part of makes them taboo.

As for calling consensual non-consent a woke term.
It's been in the kink world forever. My entire relationship carries a degree of consensual non-consent, the trust that he won't abuse it, but he has consent to push me past my limits, I would not/have not allowed for myself. Hell the very first thing he did was take nude shots of me and share them, after 20 years of me refusing to take or show people nudes.

Part of the fun of fantasies is finding things you like, or would like to do, and getting to live them out in moments you can under consensual terms.

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Lunaseraphim said:

This isn't a taboo fantasy here lol I'd go as far as saying that the fantasy can be a little dangerous.. because we do develop some connections with our clients and there can be tenderness and friendship with people but that doesn't mean it's becoming a romantic relationship. (I know some SP enter relationships with their clients tho)

My ''fantasy'' is meeting someone who treats me as well as my clients do in my personal life, who would be okay with what I do for a living.. And would be willing to make efforts for me. That doesn't mean buying me champagne and expensive jewelery or taking me to fancy restaurants, but something thoughtful once in a while would be nice, who thinks about me and remembers what I like, maybe bringing me a treat here and there, taking me on dates, planning to see me ahead of time instead of being like ''what are you up to'' at 2am or breaking up with me every 2 weeks, actually wanting to build something long lasting.. but that is only taboo because I'm comparing people I've dated to clients and because dating as an escort is difficult.

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Lunaseraphim said:

It's not because they are gen z in my opinion... Most 18-19 year olds are just simply too young. A lot of them can't be good SP they are just beginning and have 0 experience either in their personal life or as SP. You can't be blaming them.. But you're right that not seeing SP under 25 is probably a good solution. Heck even older SP have no experience and can be shy and awkward at first, really often I read reviews of guys who went to see a girl who is just beginning and they are really angry they got bad service... It's kinda normal for the session not to be necessarily perfect right away, specially if the person is a teenage girl. You need to acquire some experience and self confidence to be a good SP. If you are worried about this then see someone who has a year or two of experience.

I feel the same about clients. I don't want to see a 18-19 year old, I feel creepy. My limit is 21, I'd rather not see guys under a certain age but I have a business to run tho and these guys are clients.. In my personal life I don't date guys younger than 30, but I see clients who are in their 20's sometimes. I also wouldn't date men who are 80 year olds but sometimes I have clients that agent

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Lunaseraphim said:

This isn't a taboo fantasy here lol I'd go as far as saying that the fantasy can be a little dangerous.. because we do develop some connections with our clients and there can be tenderness and friendship with people but that doesn't mean it's becoming a romantic relationship. (I know some SP enter relationships with their clients tho)

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Lunaseraphim said:

My ''fantasy'' is meeting someone who treats me as well as my clients do in my personal life, who would be okay with what I do for a living.. And would be willing to make efforts for me. That doesn't mean buying me champagne and expensive jewelery or taking me to fancy restaurants, but something thoughtful once in a while would be nice, who thinks about me and remembers what I like, maybe bringing me a treat here and there, taking me on dates, planning to see me ahead of time instead of being like ''what are you up to'' at 2am or breaking up with me every 2 weeks, actually wanting to build something long lasting.. but that is only taboo because I'm comparing people I've dated to clients and because dating as an escort is difficult.

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Lunaseraphim said:

This isn't a taboo fantasy here lol I'd go as far as saying that the fantasy can be a little dangerous.. because we do develop some connections with our clients and there can be tenderness and friendship with people but that doesn't mean it's becoming a romantic relationship. (I know some SP enter relationships with their clients tho)

My ''fantasy'' is meeting someone who treats me as well as my clients do in my personal life, who would be okay with what I do for a living.. And would be willing to make efforts for me. That doesn't mean buying me champagne and expensive jewelery or taking me to fancy restaurants, but something thoughtful once in a while would be nice, who thinks about me and remembers what I like, maybe bringing me a treat here and there, taking me on dates, planning to see me ahead of time instead of being like ''what are you up to'' at 2am or breaking up with me every 2 weeks, actually wanting to build something long lasting.. but that is only taboo because I'm comparing people I've dated to clients and because dating as an escort is difficult.

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Lunaseraphim said:

Yeah like all fantasies, they may be different when applied to reality lol.

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blow20102010 said:

Gosh sorry but every woman want that and when that type of person is in front of them, then they get friendzoned for being too caring !

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blow20102010 said:

Gosh sorry but every woman want that and when that type of person is in front of them, then they get friendzoned for being too caring !

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Lunaseraphim said:

My ''fantasy'' is meeting someone who treats me as well as my clients do in my personal life, who would be okay with what I do for a living.. And would be willing to make efforts for me. That doesn't mean buying me champagne and expensive jewelery or taking me to fancy restaurants, but something thoughtful once in a while would be nice, who thinks about me and remembers what I like, maybe bringing me a treat here and there, taking me on dates, planning to see me ahead of time instead of being like ''what are you up to'' at 2am or breaking up with me every 2 weeks, actually wanting to build something long lasting.. but that is only taboo because I'm comparing people I've dated to clients and because dating as an escort is difficult.

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Fradi said:

What you are describing is basically the minimum that any man should be doing in a relationship and should be easy to find.
There is one huge issue though that I would never be able to cope with and I think many wouldn’t.

How can you possibly be romantically involved with a lady who fucks other men for a living, this for me is a non starter and would never work.
While I am not the jealous type I don’t share women that I am in love with nor would I consider it “just work”.
It is not that I couldn’t fall in love with an escort, if I was 30 years younger my ATF would be in serious trouble but I could never be in a relationship if she continued to work as an escort that is a recipe for disaster.

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anatomy said:

Yeah, can you imagine her coming home from a long day at the "office" i.e. fucking 5-10 guys and then telling you she is too tired to have more sex (with you.)

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Centroquois said:

This is going to sound vanilla af, but right now the fantasy is to meet a SP and overcome the apprehension of feeling hustled.

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Fradi said:

What you are describing is basically the minimum that any man should be doing in a relationship and should be easy to find.
There is one huge issue though that I would never be able to cope with and I think many wouldn’t.

How can you possibly be romantically involved with a lady who fucks other men for a living, this for me is a non starter and would never work.
While I am not the jealous type I don’t share women that I am in love with nor would I consider it “just work”.
It is not that I couldn’t fall in love with an escort, if I was 30 years younger my ATF would be in serious trouble but I could never be in a relationship if she continued to work as an escort that is a recipe for disaster.

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Lunaseraphim said:

I was describing a fantasy and not reality. Don't worry I'm not trying to get in a relationship with you.

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Fradi said:

That would be impossible lol. I am way too old for you.

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Lunaseraphim said:

I don't know how old you are, but you think no one would be in a relationship with me and made sure I know your thoughts on the matter so that everyone here could laugh at me.

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Lunaseraphim said:

Then why not say that instead? Obviously you're allowed to not want to be in a relationship with someone who fucks other men for a living. I just said it was a fantasy, and explained it's partly because dating when you are a SP is hard.

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Lunaseraphim said:

Then why not say that instead? Obviously you're allowed to not want to be in a relationship with someone who fucks other men for a living. I just said it was a fantasy, and explained it's partly because dating when you are a SP is hard.

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