What sort of social dates would you like?I want to like this 100 times ! Thank you. If you want a A1 SP (hygiene, look and service), be a A1 client. Im not difficult. Take a shower and brush your teeth before I arrive, be respectful and respect boundaries. Have a clean towel for me to shower at the end too.I like drinks (especially wine haha) too but it's not required. Thats it. Im gonna be really happy
We can do better as men.
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You are too easy to please Stacy! A client should give his best which I do! I’ll teach you even some guitar chords as well! When I get a chance!I want to like this 100 times ! Thank you. If you want a A1 SP (hygiene, look and service), be a A1 client. Im not difficult. Take a shower and brush your teeth before I arrive, be respectful and respect boundaries. Have a clean towel for me to shower at the end too.I like drinks (especially wine haha) too but it's not required. Thats it. Im gonna be really happy
I dreaming about the day when clients will stop talking for us like they are the providers. Yes it's a job, a service that you pay money for. However, like Rebaynia says, it totally not all about the money. I refuse to repeat with some clients. Not necessarily because they disrespected me or else; it can be because I just didnt like them and their opinions. Ive been offer multiple time BIG BIG amount of money to do certain things : anal, rimming, pee stuff etc. I could have just done these (even only 1 time) to make a lot of money but I didnt. So no, I won't necessarily do what they dream about just for money.
Im not gonna tell them everything they want to hear and be fake either. My regular and long-term clients are not on merb but if some of my clients are here, they will confirm this about me 100%.
Also, I became friends (yes friends for real) with some of them over the years. We know everything about each other. I care for them deeply. Im still in contact with a client/friend who move away (other continent) 2 years ago. I will probably never see him ever again but we still give each other updates about our lifes.
If it's the first time meeting, restaurant
I like good food and wine and its great to get to know someone! If we get along well Im up too a bunch of things : Bowling,mini-putt.wine tasting,ice skating, karting,shopping,arcades,spa and weekend trips/travelling.
I approve the bowling, (learning) ice skating, karting and arcadesIf it's the first time meeting, restaurant
You make it sound like a bad thing! Yes, indeed, when I see an escort, I'm paying her to make me feel good. That's exactly what I want. At the same time, I hope I'm a good client to her. I'm baffled by the extremes out here: white knights on the one hand and cynics on the other. Both seem to want some kind of intimate, social, emotional/romantic encounter that is so personally blissful for the SP that, really, she should be paying us. Do we really need more threads telling us to act respectfully or reminding us that SPs are at work when they see us? Seriously, why do we need to create fantasies about our interactions with SPs? Isn't it obvious that a good SP make us feel good in exchange for money and that, in this professional context, we can both have a positive, pleasurable experience?
Clearly there's a need for a reminder to act respectfully (maybe not you or even most of the clients here, but some obv). I agree with most of what you say: It is a transaction, both parties can leave satisfied, there's nothing to be gained by falling for the fantasy you create with SPs, etc. But there is still a massive power imbalance here. SW isn't like manual labour on a construction site or someone working on commission at Best Buy. Their livelihood is their body and they have to allow strangers to access the most vunerable parts of themselves to transact with these strangers. They operate in the grey (legally, societally, even morally to some) with little protections and there's a cost that isn't physical to being in the grey constantly. This is all before you add shitty people with poor common sense into the mix as clients; landmines they have to navigate around.
They don't need rescuing or protecting but there's def no downside to saying 'we can do better.' I've seen a lot of A1, 10-out-of-10, flawless breasts, but never met a person so perfect they can't improve.
Oh, please. There's no white knights here. At best white squires, and probably hedge squires at that. Not a real knight among the lot of them. Aside from that you're also unquestionably guilty of the act of being reasonable. There's no place for that kind of behaviour here mister! Mind your P's and Q's!
Its funny alot of these people had significant others before. Or currently . (Wife or gf) If only they put that much effort in pleasing their significant other with the same desire and passion they have to “supposedly please” sps ( while donating might i add ) maybe things would be different. Who knows …
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We aren't makeing it a mandatory thing.
It is an option to offer a lower price for the time it takes to include this time for the gentlemen who aren't as lucky as those with wives and gfs, to get that time to spend with someone they enjoy company with. Some lovelies don't want an actual gf, but want the ability to treat out the SPs who make not haveing a relationship feel less lonely and more fulfilling to maintain the lifestyle they want. He doesn't want to date, he doesn't want to lead a lady on for sex, but wants to treat the lovely lady to dinner before bedding her. There are some who want to be a gentleman with SPs, seeing it as a replacement to relationships.
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