Do you get turned off by women that swear a lot?

LC18 · Oct 12, 2023

Outside of the usual “f****” in the bedroom and such.

Let’s say you are having a conversation with a beautiful lady and every few words she drops a bomb. Is it a turn off or you don’t care?

I was catching up with a friend and realize how much she swears. Sh*t, f**** and all the Quebec classics.

Cap'tain Fantastic · Oct 12, 2023

Je suis comme @bom, trop c’est comme pas assez!

Cap'tain Fantastic · Oct 12, 2023

Being a bit of a swearer myself I can’t ask for a clean language from my partners. Also I have to admit that one of my atf, from the Maghreb, has learned to swear in québécois and I find it to be quite sexy!

Flyingby · Oct 12, 2023

Total turn off

Halloween Mike · Oct 12, 2023

I think it depend more on the way she speak than actual swearing. I remember still to this day in 2012 at the very first Merb GT i attended, wich was at PJ's near the stripclub Amazon and The Chablis Saint-Jacques, there was one women wich i think she was a friend of an SP but not one herself (but was thinking of becoming one), anyway it was a while ago, but i do remember she was speaking in such an unusual way. Like she was super cute and very womanly physically but spoke like some big old farming lady. That made for such a contrast and it was not very sexy lol.

bodick7 · Oct 12, 2023

Yes and no. Depends on how it is done.
I got one SP who swears during action: "Ah! Tabarnak!!!"
The first time I asked her if she's ok and I got 2 thumbs up.

LC18 · Oct 12, 2023

neverbored said:
But I can assure you, there will be no public dates with that provider.

Yes I am the same. I was with my friend out in public and I know it’s dumb but I felt like everyone could hear it.

hob12 · Oct 12, 2023

I'm pretty educated but I can swear like a sailor if I want to.

It depends on the context.

LC18 · Oct 12, 2023

To me it doesn’t have anything to do with intelligence but more with education. Someone could be very smart but have no social skills or basic training.

I know some very smart people that don’t know how to act in public.

PSEfreak · Oct 12, 2023

LC18 said:
Outside of the usual “f****” in the bedroom and such.

Let’s say you are having a conversation with a beautiful lady and every few words she drops a bomb. Is it a turn off or you don’t care?

I was catching up with a friend and realize how much she swears. Sh*t, f**** and all the Quebec classics.

If its every "few" words like you say, yes, its a little classless. But dropping a bomb occasionally is rather cool and she gets my attention.

Fradi · Oct 12, 2023

Total turn off, pretty much same kind of classless behaviour as being called hon and babe we all have names that we use to introduce ourselves be kind enough to use it.
Got nothing to do with education more with upbringing and intelligence.

I have heard it all as a semi pro athlete, guys don’t exactly adhere to the Queens English in the locker room or on the field or even outside it, but I never liked it and never had reason to talk that way.

Cap'tain Fantastic · Oct 12, 2023

Fradi said:
Got nothing to do with education more with upbringing and intelligence.

Yeah right,

Like_It_Hot · Oct 12, 2023

LC18 said:
Outside of the usual “f****” in the bedroom and such.

Let’s say you are having a conversation with a beautiful lady and every few words she drops a bomb. Is it a turn off or you don’t care?

I was catching up with a friend and realize how much she swears. Sh*t, f**** and all the Quebec classics.

Those are more Canadian-American classics... just listen to all those English speaking rappers.

Mais définitivement, le manque de classe est un gros turn-off. Des expressions "kinky" ou cochonnes comme "Fourre-moi, Prend-moi solide, Mange-moi" sont correctes avec modération. Mais comme on dit, "Trop d'épices gâchent la sauce".

Malheureusement, ceux qui sacrent (swear anglais) manque de vocabulaire et de savoir vivre. Ils ne se respectent pas et ne respectent pas les autres. "Que chaque torchon trouve sa guénille" disait ma grand-mère... Les ados et jeunes adultes sacrent souvent, croyant se donner confiance et de la prestance. Heureusement avec un peu de maturité ils corrigent d'eux-mêmes cette mauvaise habitude pour la majorité.

Like_It_Hot · Oct 12, 2023

neverbored said:
Intelligence is innate; education is acquired

But intelligence need to be stimulated and developed. You have also full educated plain idiots.

LC18 · Oct 12, 2023

Like_It_Hot said:
Those are more Canadian-American classics... just listen to all those English speaking rappers.

I meant by that tabarnak, caliss but didn’t want to type them all. There are so many.

Rebaynia · Oct 12, 2023

neverbored said:
Intelligence is innate; education is acquired

Someone who cronicly swears isn't attractive, it can be a turn off... but it isn't exactly a sign of lacking intelligence.

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An appropriately place swear word, in it's proper context can be better recieved and add to a conversation. As well as when talking very passionately about something it can find it's way into the vocabulary. Though i tend to try to avoid swearing myself. It can show up sometimes when heatedly talking about certain subjects. And though it can sound funny when sensoring myself at times, the mmmm or ffff replacement instead of the actual word i am trying to avoid saying can still get it's point across in the frusteration.
Though i do tend to apologize for my language when it does slip out.

Anong · Oct 13, 2023

LC18 said:
Outside of the usual “f****” in the bedroom and such.

Let’s say you are having a conversation with a beautiful lady and every few words she drops a bomb. Is it a turn off or you don’t care?

I was catching up with a friend and realize how much she swears. Sh*t, f**** and all the Quebec classics.

Absolutely, it is turn off for me.

Mandouke · Oct 13, 2023

In day-to-day life, I find it repulsive in not only women but men as well, who constantly are dropping the F-bomb and worse.

Having said that, in the bedroom, some coarse language can be very titillating, particularly when role-playing.

sigui01 · Oct 13, 2023

Turn off for me

Thor Jr · Oct 13, 2023

Well, considering i was kicked out as an alter boy when i was younger(much), not for swearing, but for gambling. Nothing big, we use to toss coins and i sort of started it, so i took the heat for it. The other guys were good boys, i corrupted them and they would of gotten whooped if they got kicked out. I am not the religious type, and it seems that French curses are all religious natured.

Point is if the lady and i are alone, it does not bother me what comes out of her mouth, but in public, and on a date, please be a lady, and ill be the gentleman.

There are times I'm out with a friend with benefits kind of deal and we have a few drinks and we play around, saying things like," hey, she's hot, would you f..ck her or f..ck him. So yea, its okay under some circumstances. Not a turn off when used in the right context.

I'm far from being perfect and i use naughty words, sometimes at the wrong time, but i have learned to catch myself most of the time, and when it just comes out, a quick apology, especially around children.

Respect is what it is all about.

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