Recent content by OHenry

I hear you. I was thinking there was not much point to be in this sick world either for a while. And it’s difficult to constantly face rejection while pursuing dating when you can just ‘cut to the chase’ and purchase the end result ( without the meal and bs). I’m in the middle where I resent...

Well you are not a monk and need sex and release. Hypothetically if the situation was reversed would you let her have a fling?

Yes Men mostly “ designed “ society and you have to agree that Women more or less benefit from it. No one is condoning cheating for men or women, but it is much easier for women to cheat than a man. I don’t care about the Bible or any other book and women can use the Bible to justify their...

A lot of sage advice to ponder…

I guess I miss that high , the connection, the touch , of a beautiful, fit ,buxom lady in her prime. A repeat of youth maybe, I don’t know, but I’m trying to find out…

I hope not…

Actually, biologically it does, as in nature most males seek many partners to assure the continuation of their genes. Take out societal pressures, most males would not be monogamous. Thanks for your input…

I don’t know who made this up and I’m just curious that’s all. It’s just a theory and from the information I’ve heard from SPs , it doesn’t necessarily apply to reality so I’m ready to disregard the premise. I mean this may also affect men as well negatively or beneficially. Just looking for...

Perfectly put , that’s EXACTLY what I’m searching for, a deeper connection. I don’t know if that’s possible…

Early 50s but look like mid 40s. I had an initial encounter where I fell for the SP but she put me in my place when she giggled at my infatuation while counting the cash. Kind of downhill from there. But still searching for that special encounter where you can “ fall in love -ish”…

I’ll check into it a bit deeper. It’s presented as more a female thing because males can just have sex without intimacy whereas the majority of females seek intimacy in a relationship ( because of emotional attachment/investment). But I guess guys can get deep into it as well…

Thank you for you reply, I’m just trying to find out what’s reality compared to theory when it comes to pair bonding. Supposedly with men , they are designed to spread the seed and can have sex without needing intimacy, while most women seek an intimate connection. While men contain the seed of...

The initial euphoria high of my first encounters have given way to an empty feeling, no matter how hot the lady. I wonder if there is a way to rekindle or find any magic in this “hobby”?

Have you ever heard of the pair-bonding statement that if a woman has more than 5 -8 sexual encounters/partners , it erodes her chances of pair bonding successfully with a serious partner long term? Also , in certain spirituality there is talk of a supposed “ energy field “ ( considering atoms...

I understand that , but when a few people have the same experience , it’s a factor to consider. The provider expects to be paid for the service and the client in return , expects to be provided with a good experience. If that is experience is more to the “ business-like type rather than GFE ,or...