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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.Yes hotels or in my car, never at home.
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A valuable cautionary tale for any of us to internalize. We can appreciate the companionship and intimacy but this is not a healthy... -
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What a story! But why was the dude aggressively chasing you if he wasn't a jealous lover? How did he get your contact info to send you...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.I never intended it to be and I wouldn't say I was " in love" with her by any means. But I did definitely care about her. It felt more...
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No you are not the only one. I went through my own version of crazy. The Covid lock down and at that time dealing with postpartum...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.I'm 38, she's 28... But I was always very careful to hide details like my home address and bank info, she never had any access to that...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.I don't think she was trying to scam me or anything, she's just mentally unstable. There was definitely some real mutual attraction at...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.I don't think it was loneliness, I think it was ego (feeling needed) and the excitement of having a "secret" second Life full of danger...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.Thanks I appreciate it. One of my main worries is that she will try to come back apologizing and sweet talking me and I'm afraid I'll...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.You're absolutely right I should have listened to my instincts. I knew it wouldn't end well. I should have walked away, but I let my...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.No only mental harm haha. Many times over these past couple of years I told myself I should walk away. Each time she came to me...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.Guys please tell me I'm not the only one who's gone through this
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.About 50/50 between amazing or terrible. Was always a gamble meeting with her. Some of the best high's but the lowest lows.
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread Mental health incidents thread.I don't know if my story qualifies but there's certainly a mental health disaster, I posted separately here...
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JI'm not sure what I'm hoping for with this post but I need to get it off my chest and this is the only place I can talk about it. I met...