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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.Well that's the problem... I think I like some chaos in my life, and I've been scrolling through ads on leoslist and escorte intime...
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Jjohn4808 reacted to EastWind's post in the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope? with
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Bam. Right there. This. You admit it. Something many wouldn’t and deny where they continue on because this is exciting. You were... -
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This makes sense. The emotional rollercoaster ride is what is known as "trauma bonding". Quoting from the website below: "A trauma bond...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.Thanks man, you're right and I really appreciate you saying that, it definitely helps processing this whole experience.
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It is ok to miss someone and it is very easy to get into a situation where you think you are helping and feel some kind of friendship...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.A combination of those things. She had a nice face, nice body. Not perfect but really my type in terms of that. but mostly what kept me...
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It would be fair to assume that you got your fair share out of this relation be it adrenaline, personal, sexual etc. On the other hand...
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thank you for sharing your story. This went on for 3 years according to you. Besides the adrenaline rush as you say, what else is the...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.In any case, it is helps me cope to think of it as a chemical addiction. When the bad feelings take over I can just tell myself: "...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.Yes I think this is spot on
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Unfortunately good intentions don’t always lead to good outcomes. The fact that you provided her with basic necessities was certainly...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.It went on for about 3 years. I met her some time late 2023.
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Jjohn4808 reacted to EastWind's post in the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope? with Haha.
Do you really want to poke that bear? You are going to end up with a love/hate men ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.Trolls aside, thanks to everyone else. I appreciate you guys reading and responding. It's been a huge help in processing what...
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Jjohn4808 replied to the thread A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?.Haha. You don't know me at all or anything about me, so whatever your issue is, it's with yourself. I'm not biting on the rage bait, sorry.