Recent content by box

Why Is It Only Indy's Who Do This ? Recently, I have noticed that it is only Indy's who have "No Black Men" listed in their ads but you never see this with agency SP's.Personally, I have no problem with a woman who has the restriction....it doesn't "offend" me & I don't automatically accuse...

Amber, I agree with you. Within a relationship both partners should communicate their concerns....rather than pretending like he/she can read minds & should know what's wrong. However, I think that most women would be offended if their man were to come to them with any sexual concerns. I...

Hi Mocha, Very well said...I don't have a black accent whatsoever... and definitely don't adhere to the ignorant,uneducated thug stereotype. I haven't yet seen an Sp (but have been considering it for a while) and it would be it awkward to show up for an appointment and be turned away. I think...

Thanks for the heads up ManApart .Definitely not the way to secure repeat business.

Thanks to those who responded & offered suggestions.I didn't start the thread to debate whether or not SP's are justified or have the right to refuse clients. I FULLY support their decision to restrict who they see on the basis of race,ethnicity,etc.I was wondering if I should reveal my...

Fellow Merbites, Do you think that it would it be a good idea (or is it recommended) that I reveal that I am a visible minority when booking with an agency/Indy ? I haven't spent time with a SP as of yet but I would like to avoid any awkward/disappointing situations if/when I actually...

Personally, If i were to call up an agency & be treated rudely/abruptly by the booker;it would deter me from using their services in the future.Just as if I were to walk into a store and received tersely ...I would not give them my business ever again. I don't expect a booker to ask me how my...

Hi Merlot, I've heard that too about one of them,at least.Are the very abrupt/rude when speaking to potential clients ? I don't expect a booker to act like my best friend and have a 10 min conversation but some politeness/courtesy would be nice. I gather that they feel that they offer such...

Hi Alyssa, When you say that you are hare to approach...What do you mean ? When you are out and you think that a man will approach do you give him a dirty look to dissuade him ? A lot women wear their iPods or pretend that they're talking to someone on their cell. Personally,I don't have the...

I used to say that the only way I'll become intimate with a woman is if I pay for it. Lol...seems like I won't even get that chance since no one knows of any SP's with no race restrictions. Or no SP's are willing to come forward and say that they welcome all. Lucky white guys !!! lol :p

I was wondering if some you could name some Sp's or Indy's & Agencies that don't have any restrictions on the basis of race.The ones that you know of ...at least. It would save lot time for some hobbyists & prevent disappointment for many. It might also save time& money for a number of...

I was wondering..are there any of you on the board that don't own a cellphone.This question isn't for the SP's ...it's almost impossible to be one and not own a cell. But for the hobbyists would you be able to be in the "hobby" without one ? I guess owning a cell is essential if you have...

This isn't another thread about why SP don't see black clients or why they should .I was just wondering if some of you (who are black) can mention the names of SP's or agencies that refused to see you. Also,when were you refused ? Was it when you were making the appointment and mentioned...

I have never seen a SP but I wouldn't be offended or become upset that I was refused because of my race.I fully support a SP's right to choose her clients based on race.Unlike a lot of black guys,It doesn't bother me at all.It's her body and her choice as to who has access to it. The...

What has been your most embarrassing moment with a woman ? It doesn't have to be with a SP or even sexual.It could be an everday thing...being embarrassedby woman that you were trying to flirt with or talk to. Something that made you shake your head and say to yourself "what a loser.." Mine...