Does jealously ever an issue?
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It is funny,
It works both ways. I think you can easily catch feelings, I actually do, but with time you become hardened. It happens that during the intimacy people feel a special bond, but these days I just kill that feeling. I know that she will be sucking a bunch of cocks later on so it becomes like a gonzo in my head. Those sweet feelings disapear in an instant. It used to be at times painful, but now it is as simple as washing my hands.
What that has done for me is make it hard to bond with someone and also make it easier to break with someone. I had complains, women think I am a prick and not sincere. It is not true, it was sincere for a very short time. I don't know if it is good or bad, only time will tell and I am leaning more towards this not being good.
It works both ways. I think you can easily catch feelings, I actually do, but with time you become hardened. It happens that during the intimacy people feel a special bond, but these days I just kill that feeling. I know that she will be sucking a bunch of cocks later on so it becomes like a gonzo in my head. Those sweet feelings disapear in an instant. It used to be at times painful, but now it is as simple as washing my hands.
What that has done for me is make it hard to bond with someone and also make it easier to break with someone. I had complains, women think I am a prick and not sincere. It is not true, it was sincere for a very short time. I don't know if it is good or bad, only time will tell and I am leaning more towards this not being good.
I recently told an SP that I know she will never love me and that it's a service she is providing, and I get it. She told me her last BF she met was while SP. She said it was just love at first sight! SP are people too, and sometimes you just can't help it.
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It depends, I knew one that got pissed that all of her regulars were now going to the younger girl, that she threw the cat of the young girl in the dryer and killed it.
I think there are various degrees as well as reactions.
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“She is a 10” That all depends. Her SP persona while in her best foot forward if you don’t over extend yourself phase. You mentally and emotionally put her in a pedestal. Once things get whacky and they will if you see her enough times she will let her guard down. An SP is a human after all. As for you who put himself a 3/4. Maybe hit the gym, eat, and improve your wardrobe? Having a lean athletic physique up things about 3 or 4 points.No. Not jealous at all. Never will be with a SP. Why? Because it's her job, it's not a relationship; it's a business.
Hell, I know when I book a SP, I would never be able to be with her in real life. She is a 10, im a 3 or 4.. do the maths
Im the happiest guy during the session but never will have feelings because I know it's fake.... I Paid for it
When outcall reined supreme the girls sit in the cars. I remember the girls I met telling the gossip and the hilarity of the cattiness that took place during the shift. Many of them don’t join in and they are just in the car minding their own business.
I bet there's catty behavior at the strip club too.
Because I noticed at Kingdom, Chez Paree, etc, there's always certain girls that get many guys to go for private dances with them and then there's other girls who are kinda sitting around (usually bored & on their phone) not getting many guys to go with them.
I bet those girls give the cat eye to the popular girls in the back dressing room.
A 10 for me may be a 2 for you, I understand.
Im a little fat but it's more about my face and back. Gym won't help
Plus im not ready to be in a RS so seeing SPs is what make me feel good.
And also, im a foot fetish so it's way easier seeing a SP while I could just destroy a girlfriend if she is not into that.
No my ATF has been retired for many years now. We are friends and know each other a long time.
She is an amazing young lady and I hope one day she finds someone her own age that she can have a fabulous life with like I did with my wife.
She deserves nothing less and until then I am extremely lucky to have her in my life and to be able to spend time with her.
She is an amazing young lady and I hope one day she finds someone her own age that she can have a fabulous life with like I did with my wife.
She deserves nothing less and until then I am extremely lucky to have her in my life and to be able to spend time with her.
Every now and then I get a little bit of an attachment feeling with a regular, specially after a good session. But I then kind of force myself to recall everytime that I enter the door and she does not remember when was the last time that we saw each other, or when I ask her if she recalls that time we joke about x or discussed y, and she can not remember. Then you realized she is not keeping memories about our encounters or going back home to think about our sessions, she is just doing a job and she is good at it. Then when I realize that I am also happy, because is like somehow having a relationship that is stuck in the honeymoon phase. There is no expectations and no quotidianness
It's only happened once to me once that jealousy was an issue.
That happened in a situation where the relationship with the SP went far beyond the boundaries that should have been enforced, and there was a lot of ambiguity in the nature of the relationship (we spent lots of time together off the clock, did stuff together that wasn't related to services, talked and hung out for hours with no money being exchanged, she even showed up to help me move apartments)
So after a certain about of time like that, jealousy snuck up on me. I got too attached and when I realized it, it was too late to not feel it. It took some mental work to not let it affect me and to not hold unrealistic expectations of her. I 100% suppressed it and certainly never let it show. I even offered to help her get a job at an agency.
I always try to kill any jealous thoughts ASAP. I never let it manifest itself as words or actions, it's my own internal issue to deal with, as she doesn't owe me anything and has no obligations to me.
It's natural to sometimes get a little pang of jealousy but it helps is to remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea, I always remind myself that the type of guy women like to be around (i.e. a strong successful "cool" guy) has options doesn't get jealous... Acting on jealousy is childish and something only chumps do.
That happened in a situation where the relationship with the SP went far beyond the boundaries that should have been enforced, and there was a lot of ambiguity in the nature of the relationship (we spent lots of time together off the clock, did stuff together that wasn't related to services, talked and hung out for hours with no money being exchanged, she even showed up to help me move apartments)
So after a certain about of time like that, jealousy snuck up on me. I got too attached and when I realized it, it was too late to not feel it. It took some mental work to not let it affect me and to not hold unrealistic expectations of her. I 100% suppressed it and certainly never let it show. I even offered to help her get a job at an agency.
I always try to kill any jealous thoughts ASAP. I never let it manifest itself as words or actions, it's my own internal issue to deal with, as she doesn't owe me anything and has no obligations to me.
It's natural to sometimes get a little pang of jealousy but it helps is to remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea, I always remind myself that the type of guy women like to be around (i.e. a strong successful "cool" guy) has options doesn't get jealous... Acting on jealousy is childish and something only chumps do.
That is a problem when the SP and you reside in the same city or close proximity to each other. Couple with an affordable price point something like this has a very strong chance to happen.
Yeah it didn't help that we lived a block away from eachother and there was often action "off the clock"
WOW. That is a quasi-like "relationship." Hope this ended well for you if it did.
Haha no it was a disaster it ended horribly, I'm talking about the girl from my other post... So no it didn't end well lol
Jealousy slowly kills desire. If I take the example given in the first comment, imagine the girl who tells you that she finds you handsome (and is really sincere) and you start making up all sorts of scenarios that she might lie / might find somebody better because you see that she sees a lot of men and becomes suspicious of every comment she makes or every action she takes ; it shows in your non-verbal, it stresses the girl and she becomes distant because she feels observed and judged for every tiny detail, your experience is subsequently tinged by your own negative vibe that you yourself have established.
