Is This A Red Flag | Appreciate Any Input

[Artvandelay_importer]

Hey guys,

I am planning to see this SP who was with an agency before. She decided to meet me, but didn't even ask how long? Is this a red flag? Sorry if it's a dump question, but would really appreciate any input. Thanks!

 

[Artvandelay_importer]

I really can't say for sure.

I have seen workers outside of agencies or parlors, and it went fine.

How many meetings did you have with the girl?

If you were a steady regular, i don't see a problem.

How many times did you see the girl?

If the vibe is good between you two, then go for it.

Hey, thanks so much. I have seen about 5 - 6 times, but she was with the agency then. Never seen after she left the agency. This will be my first time.

 

[dcdialer]

How long were your sessions with her before? Maybe if it's always been the same length she assumes that how long it will be? Hard to tell if it's a red flag if she's already seen you 5 times already.

 

[themonk83]

It is on you to say the duration. You are also saying she used to be agency so as a new indy, she is probably not used to be asking for it in case a prospective client forgets to say.

No red flag

 

[Artvandelay_importer]

Where will be the meeting be? Motel/Hotel room? A place she designates? Your place?

My hotel. I will be staying at the Le Square Phillips downtown.

 

[Artvandelay_importer]

How long were your sessions with her before? Maybe if it's always been the same length she assumes that how long it will be? Hard to tell if it's a red flag if she's already seen you 5 times already.

60 minutes the first time and after that 90 minutes always.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

First and foremost, I don’t believe this is a dumb question at all, as that’s exactly what this forum is here fo safety purposes. Secondly, let’s be realistic: ultimately, it all depends on your previous encounters with her. Consider how you felt during those interaction; what was the chemistry like between you two? Additionally, you should reflect on whether, after all your meetings, there’s any way your encounters could be at risk.When it comes to safety red flags, pay attention to the location where you plan to meet, whether it seems suspicious or potentially a bait spot. Also, consider whether she might be involved in pimping or part of a gang. Kudos to you for raising your concerns and addressing such a sensitive topic.

 

[Artvandelay_importer]

First and foremost, I don’t believe this is a dumb question at all, as that’s exactly what this forum is here fo safety purposes. Secondly, let’s be realistic: ultimately, it all depends on your previous encounters with her. Consider how you felt during those interaction; what was the chemistry like between you two? Additionally, you should reflect on whether, after all your meetings, there’s any way your encounters could be at risk.When it comes to safety red flags, pay attention to the location where you plan to meet, whether it seems suspicious or potentially a bait spot. Also, consider whether she might be involved in pimping or part of a gang. Kudos to you for raising your concerns and addressing such a sensitive topic.

Thanks for your input Obvio. Always appreciate your help. Chemistry has been always great when she was with the agency. Now that I will seeing her as an indy that worries me. I am meeting at my hotel downtown. Is there any precautions I should take? Appreciate any help.

 

[Artvandelay_importer]

Where will be the meeting be? Motel/Hotel room? A place she designates? Your place?

Do you think I should take any precautions if I'm meeting her at my hotel?

 

[Artvandelay_importer]

If you have a peephole, just make sure she is alone at your door, no one else with her.. and i think you should be good to go..

Makes sense, thanks so much!

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Thanks for your input Obvio. Always appreciate your help. Chemistry has been always great when she was with the agency. Now that I will seeing her as an indy that worries me. I am meeting at my hotel downtown. Is there any precautions I should take? Appreciate any help.

I don’t believe you need to have any concerns, as you’ll be meeting her at your usual hotel. Just let us know the date and time, and if we don’t hear from you, we’ll kick off the search with the Merb Investigating Unit. Luckily, this forum is packed with some truly exceptional detectives. For reasons only the universe can explain, everyone here seems to be a diplomat in every conceivable field. Rest assured, you’re in good hands, buddy.

 

[Artvandelay_importer]

I don’t believe you need to have any concerns, as you’ll be meeting her at your usual hotel. Just let us know the date and time, and if we don’t hear from you, we’ll kick off the search with the Merb Investigating Unit. Luckily, this forum is packed with some truly exceptional detectives. For reasons only the universe can explain, everyone here seems to be a diplomat in every conceivable field. Rest assured, you’re in good hands, buddy.

Hahaha, thanks so you much Obvio. As always I am grateful for all your advice and others in MERB . I think this is why MERB is the best. I have got enough advice in terms of safety precauation. I am not paranoid or anything lol but I am meeting her in the Le Square Phillips this Thursday haha. i think it'll all be good.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Hahaha, thanks so you much Obvio. As always I am grateful for all your advice and others in MERB . I think this is why MERB is the best. I have got enough advice in terms of safety precauation. I am not paranoid or anything lol but I am meeting her in the Le Square Phillips this Thursday haha. i think it'll all be good.

Thank you for your kind words. Le Square Philips is a wonderful and secure hotel. Of course, I'm always happy to help whenever I can. Remember, we're not here to oppose one another, but rather to support each other as a community.

 

[Julia Sky]

I'm so confused - you saw this woman several times, what are you concerned about? She didn't suddenly become another person just because she no longer works for a pimp. The reason chemistry was good between you two was because of the chemistry being good - not because she worked under someone else. Lol

You say you always saw her for 90 minutes - so it's very likely that she simply assumed it was for the usual duration. It is on you to tell her if you want something different or if you want to make sure.

I don't think the paranoia is warranted.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I had times when i texted agencies and didn't specify duration, sometimes they would ask, but most would not, as they are either used to me booking 1h or they consider unless stated otherwise that 1h is the standard. Now if you say you met her 6 times and 5 out of those 6 were 90m, she likely assumed it would be 90m. Why not reconfirm with her the duration, that way you will be sure.

I don't understand what "reg flag/danger" there could be if you sure you are really in contact with the right person. Worst than can happen is she ghost you... wich sure would suck, but thats why Plan B are important. But no an indy escort won't show up at your hotel with 2 big guys and try to rob you... lol. If these set ups may happen, they always happen in incall where they have "home advantage".

Just be aware that "i forget something in the car" is 98% of the time "i won't be back, you just got robbed". So if you pay in advance, if that was to happen, ask her to give back the payment. And don't accept a purse as "deposit" as i read in the past they would have no problem losing a cheap purse they probably paid 2$ at goodwill with a pack of smoke almost empty and a couple kleenex

But seriously if you seen her already multiple times, i don't see why she would do anything shady. She probably want to keep you as client...

 

[MCTJ]

Hey guys,

I am planning to see this SP who was with an agency before. She decided to meet me, but didn't even ask how long? Is this a red flag? Sorry if it's a dump question, but would really appreciate any input. Thanks!

and why didn't you just ask "for how long?" (or state your preference).

I get it: I am anxious too, but this is indeed a "dump question".

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

and why didn't you just ask "for how long?" (or state your preference).

I get it: I am anxious too, but this is indeed a "dump question".

I'm not certain whether it was brought up , but I believe that the absence of any mention of pricing is a significant red flag.

 

[MCTJ]

I'm not certain whether it was brought up , but I believe that the absence of any mention of pricing is a significant red flag.

I wish the OP had provided more details in his first post. There's a pattern here of endless threads about questions that could easily be answered in 1 page or less. Hence my frustration.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Hey guys,

I am planning to see this SP who was with an agency before. She decided to meet me, but didn't even ask how long? Is this a red flag? Sorry if it's a dump question, but would really appreciate any input. Thanks!

Maybe she assumes she will see you for the same amount of time you booked her through the agency? Did you specify the length of the booking requested?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

If you've booked her several times for 60 and then 90 minutes she probably assumed that's how long you're booking her.. why would this be a red flag? Maybe she just forgot to ask...