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Online Dating, any one into it ?

man77777

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I'm agree about the poor efficiency of this kind of pickup strategy, I just told that a stupid compliment is not necessary more respectful than a macho joke, it all depends on what you call respect... Of course it shows less politeness but not less respect IMO...
 

snoodle

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why would you think insulting someone will make her receptive is beyond me...

because women are from venus and men are from mars..we don't think alike...for me it doesn't make any sense..but i figure who knows maybe a woman thinks totally opposite of me

This isn't the moderator writing.

Snoodle, you owe me a laptop. :)
I just sprayed my keyboard and screen with coffee when I read your post.
hahaha :) well at least i made you laugh... i hope your computer still works

She asks for a picture, she sees your picture and no longer wants to talk to you. Hmmm, do you seriously need an explanation?! Now I'm the one confused.

Thats not what bothered me..its the rudeness behind it..if you don't like a guys picture at least say sorry ur not my type and thats it. I won't bother you anymore. but to ask my picture and immediately blocking me without saying a word...well thats pretty darn rude and impolite.

You want to date someone, who is 20 years younger than you...so let say you want a 20-25 years old chick who is probably receiving hundreds of messages per week (trust me, i speak from experience as a young chick who were used to go on this kind of sites, a couple of years ago), without forcing yourself? Without showing you are interested in their personality? You want to approach them with a "hello" plain and simple...when you don't even have a picture...and you are expecting those girls to reply to you when they get 50-75 messages per day of guys who are working their ass off to get in touch with them, telling them how they liked a certain part of their profil, having pictures of them...you really think your "hello" can compete with all the other messages they are receiving?

Thats my whole point all these guys on POF are liars they write up a bunch of bullshit to impress the girl when they don't mean a word of it. they are just trying to get laid. Im trying to use reverse psychology maybe by acting like i don't give a shit will make them want me !
Im not like that I'm an honest guy..i can't be fake...
Im not gonna jump through hoopes and write a long as speech as if i just won an oscar for a total stranger i don't even know.. I'm just gonna say hi..thats it ...thats all...if she responds then ill start a conversation....and if she's too much of a snob to say hi back ...well too bad she's the one loosing out...LOL
How are these girls gonna expect to actually find someone when all they are interested in is listening to lies instead of just talking to someone and from there getting a feel if he's real or not...

anyways i don't care i if they don't wanna talk i just download their pictures and jack off to them...its probably better than dating them LOLLL
 

TheBlob

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The thing is, as it's been said before, that girls become lazy on dating sites because their get so many messages. They have absolutely no work to do, just filter what they get. Most of them don't even bother to reply when they're not interested.

I have wrote to many women on dating sites, carefully reading each profile line by line to get a glimpse of what their interests are and to see if there's a possibility of connection, and i tried to personalize my messages by what i have read and get their attention with that. It never worked. It gets frustrating and the last time i used those sites, i realized that i started to care less and less about their profile because it was obviously useless. Then i just looked at photos....the lesson i learned is that even if you do care about their profile, it doesn't give you any advantage. And no, i don't try to date woman 20 years younger than me. I'm in my early 30's and not looking too bad, and it didn't change a damn thing.
 

MtlNewbie

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I'm in my early 30's and not looking too bad

I'm not convinced, you do call yourself TheBlob. :) I kid.

Seriously though, my friend said you have to send like 50 messages to get 1 reply. Obviously if you send 50 messages and it says "Hi" and you have no picture or profiles, you're probably still not going to get any replies. Like you said, that's just the nature of the game. But you can't complain if you sign up and don't play.

Alyssa, that emoticon at the end is awesome!
 

Merlot

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...Ladies wants gentleman ,not jerks, those have to see escort to get some...

Hello Lily,

The operative word is "Ladies", and it's not always true. I've known many guys who acted like total jerks, talking to the women as if they were tramps, also telling them how they love to bang married women, and widely making it known what raunchy thing they like to do to women. Yes, many of the women were as bad as the men, but a lot of others were ladies who still went for the guy because of looks and build...and excitement. Some of the women I knew very well as ladies for a long time and they still went with pigs. These jerks seem to get what they want often...some of them real ladies.

As for dating sites, I tried it for a while. It was easy to meet women with the way I write to them, with some success afterward. I had good but not impossible standards, but most often I didn't meet someone I liked enough, and sometimes they probably felt the same way. It didn't seem worth it after a while.

good luck,

Merlot
 
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Lily from Montreal

Allo Merlot...you are right (of course loll) ...girls have a way to not heed the bad signs , and yes, Snoodle , macho jokes are one,and a way with words is often the way to get girls...even me,I always joke that you know how some guys are breast guy? Or ass guy? Well I am a brain girll, so if you are smart and write well...can you beleive that one of my worst meeting was with a lawer that I was so impressed with, and he turned out to be be so vulgar and rude...I was sooo disapointed...
 

snoodle

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...so well, keep on your good work with your hands, you will need it!:thumb:

LOOL :) thats a good one

Anyways screw POF but i am curious about Zoosk now...through Facebook

i keep getting a bunch of notifications that girls on that site have winked at me and sent me messages and i don't even have a picture ?

I can't even answer them back cause i have to pay membership to answer back.

But I'm wondering are those girls for real or are they paid by zoosk just to message guys and act like they are interested just to get guys to pay for the membership ?
 

John_96

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we are giving you tips (and some of us whpo are trying to help you are womens, so we know what we are talking about),

I'll give you the best tip. Talk to girls in real life, you'll skip all that inetrnet "firewall" and get directly to personal communication! If you don't talk personally, internet won't help you!

Honestly, I have no idea what I'm supposed to write there on POF. I would really like to get in some kind of relationship with english or french speaking girl to learn more local culture and master communications skills (I'm totally serious about culture thing, I learned English/French in my twenties and I didn't have any experience on that personal level so far). I went specifically there for this reason, I don't want to limit myself to girls of my small community.
I tried different approaches, BUT I had never received a single reply on POF :) I'm serious, not a single reply!

I'm not the best looking guy, but in real life it works way better for me than with POF or any online dating site. Even with escorts, the last escort that I've seen was Jasmine a couple of weeks ago (one of the top rated here), she even didn't want to charge me (I insisted), left me her phone number (I didn't call).
I call escorts once in a while and a few times girls were genuinely curious if I have a girlfriend or not and why I call escorts (my last gf isn't even in canada). I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me, maybe my standards are too high (look wise I think I haven't seen escorts looking better than my gf, even 30 minutes of browsing what Montreal has to offer on POF didn't give anything close).

So, can anybody advise some good place to meet girls? :) If I try to talk in a club conversations turns into "What? What did you say?" because of the accent ;)
Don't offer Thursdays, I've been there, done that. By the way, like 5 years ago my and my friend actually scored two girls at thursdays, recently I recognized them as Penelope and Bianca from xxxtase.
 

snoodle

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I've tried a new tactic and have been getting some results.
I only message girls with no picture..some write back and we conversate.
Problem is when i actually do get a picture, they are as ugly as sin !
LOL
 

John_96

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You must be really good looking if you fucked an escort and she didn't want money, or just great in bed.

I don't think that looks matter that much in situations like that. She was just out of a relationship, so you never know what she might have in her head.
I think that looks matter the most with younger girls.
 
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Lily from Montreal

Looks is more important for guys that for girls ,and I think you are right ,the older the girl and the less importance it has...
 

themonk83

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some weird people on pof. looking for bareback sex, girls looking for creampies.. i mean, gangbang, bukkake, i can understand but bareback? :crazy:
 

mtl2012

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I think it my time to contribute to the thread with a story about online dating...

So I was subscribed to an online dating site and well it is kinda difficult to meet girls that way ... E-mails sent and I think people are too lazy to reply because it requires work and energy on their part ... But that is not the point of this story

So I was browsing on a SP and MP website, looking for a nice girl and looking around the website I recognize this girl from the online dating site ... I mean the face was deleted but I recognized the clothes that she was wearing ... I went to the online site to confirm who she was and it was her ... I mean she was alright looking ... It was funny to read the profile because it said things like "I am loyal and yayayayrara .... Looking for a nice guy ... someone out there for me" And then the other profile in the service provider website had things like "GFE and incalls" ...

So I was thinking ... It will be a fun thing to meet up with this girl ... I was not really expecting a great experience ... But I was more intrigued about what was out there sexually on the online dating site ... From the start she was difficult to set an appointment with ... Like I can't at this time or that time ... We finally got to meet up at some dodgy motel ... She tells me the prices ... Of course she doesn't know that I know that she is on a online dating site ...

We did on MISH and she was like no kissing and a bunch of restrictions ... It was not that great but it was not the worst I've had ... Paid my dues ... and left ...

It made me think that sometimes society thinks that men are not honest but this girl was behaving in the same way that guys do ... At least some girls who are in the biz tend to be honest about it ... and even enjoy it ...

The internet is full of fake appearences... dating sites, Facebook to make our lives more interesting, and twitter to pretend that we actually have fans to follow us ... but no one is that exceptional ... At this moment I am wondering, if there is one girl providing services and at the same time doing online dating, then how many others are doing the same???
 

snoodle

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a bunch are doing the same...

im realizing too a lot of these girls already have boyfriends...but their shopping around for something better.
some girls with no pics will talk to you exchange a pic but when you start talking about meeting..they back out..

its total bullshit
 

mtl2012

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Haha ... For me it was a funny situation (and also brought me down to earth) coz when you see all these online dating ads and how they market this concept to you ... it makes you think that the girls out there with their profiles are actually goodies goodies, girl-next-door type ... and maybe they are messed up too or greedy ... Or even worse someone who is greedy and hypocritical who is an SP on her free time ... haha ...

Maybe some girls think they have the higher moral ground but I think that no one really has it and it comes at the end to the type of person you are and the relationship you have to others ... At least with the SPs the professional relationship can be kept honest doesn't it?

I am not saying that there are no good girls or good guys out there ... I am just saying that one can also be conned out not only by men but also girls on these online website....
 

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I've wondered about this too. It's cheaper to call a girl sometimes instead of spending money on a taxi, drinks, dinner, another taxi, and then after all that you might strike out :( What are the best Montreal hookup apps, sites, etc. that aren't dating, long term, etc.? Any input from locals?
 
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